mrsnj 01:33 PM 07-31-2014
Blackcat31 01:37 PM 07-31-2014
Sorry you are having a rough time getting through to this family.
I would communicate with mom only too. If grandma has an issue, she should go through the parent of the child.
mrsnj 02:04 PM 07-31-2014
i have told her that before. Another issue we have had. The problem is I am friends with gmom through church. I think she feels cause we are friends she can just buzz me and change schedules to fit gmoms needs. I have spoke to both mom and gmom. Told them no more altering without mom calling. The gmom STILL calls me. She will call and text and text and call all day long until I get pissed and then contact mom who knows nothing about it and then mom calls gmom and flips out all over her. Then I get the tude for a few days.
I love gmom but she completely oversteps!
Blackcat31 02:22 PM 07-31-2014
Originally Posted by mrsnj:
i have told her that before. Another issue we have had. The problem is I am friends with gmom through church. I think she feels cause we are friends she can just buzz me and change schedules to fit gmoms needs. I have spoke to both mom and gmom. Told them no more altering without mom calling. The gmom STILL calls me. She will call and text and text and call all day long until I get pissed and then contact mom who knows nothing about it and then mom calls gmom and flips out all over her. Then I get the tude for a few days. I love gmom but she completely oversteps!
Ugh, that is hard.
Could you maybe use licensing and say something like there is a lot of fallout happening due to providers discussing things with extended family members and that isn't okay by licensing rules because of confidentiality stuff...
Would the mom be willing to tell her mother that you can ONLY communicate with the actual parent and that it is way too difficult, confusing and stressful for you to be listening to two different "moms"?
Laurel 02:34 PM 07-31-2014
rosieteddy 04:23 AM 08-01-2014
I would juse charge full weekly tuition,let them call if child not attending.