I have been considering closing down for a while due to multiple reasons. I just don't like sharing my home with my business, for one. Also I am going to have a baby in a month or so. Also one of my parents drives me nuts. Well today, my other family told me that they were thinking of leaving, so I mentioned that I was thinking of closing, and that solidified both of our decisions. That mom is very nice and easy to talk to, and she hadn't wanted to leave because she didn't want to leave me with less income, but financially it didn't make sense for her to keep working. No hard feelings either way.

Now I have the other family to contend with. They are acquaintances of ours. I have actually posted about them before because the mom is a very controlling person. I know this news is not going to go over well at all, and I dread telling them. How much notice should I give? Should I tell her on a Friday? Is it okay to send a message through facebook (this is how we usually communicate when not talking face to face)? I just really dread her reaction, and she keeps saying how stressed she is lately too. And, on top of all of that, she just gave me a nice Christmas gift so I feel guilty. And I will continue to see her quite a bit so..... I don't know. It's going to be so awkward!

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Here are a couple threads with closing notices that may be helpful: https://www.daycare.com/forum/tags.p...+sample+letter

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Thanks! There are some good ideas there!

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perhaps you can just find a reasonable real excuse...'



Like you are PG and not feeling well and feel it is for the best to close.....

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The other family is leaving and I really can't afford to operate with only one family here. I decided that it will be best to close...


It's not like you are saying I don't like you so I am closing....lol

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I am struggling with this, too. I am closing in June, at the end of the school year. I haven't told any of the families, b/c I need their income until then and I am afraid they will leave early.

I have had all of these families for years, and know that they will be shocked and probably a little bit mad. Our children are all friends, they work in my son's school, our husbands are friendly...just tough all around.

I think they will be mad when they find out I waited to tell them, b/c we are prettyt involved in one another's worlds, but I know if I tell them it may lead to other problems. I am waiting until after April vacation...but I am nervous ALL the time!

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I probably will end up using a real excuse, but it's still going to make them mad... and like bunnyslippers, I just dread it. Our older kids are friends too. I know I can't be responsible for their reaction and I just need to do what is best for our family, but it's so tough to give other people bad news...

On a related note, acquiring a backbone would be a very good thing should I ever decide to do daycare again.

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