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Brooksie 08:51 AM 03-26-2013
I was just wondering what every ones opinion is on visible tattoos/piercings in child care. I have a few tattoos that are concealed but I have quite a few unusual ear piercings that none of my parents seem to care about. Personally I feel like that quality of child care is more important than the appearance or personal style of the care giver. I am currently getting ready for my next sitting where I will be getting a tattoo for my daughter that will be on my inner bicep area. This is my first tattoo that will not be covered up. (Although I have one on my shoulder blade that shows in the summer). I'm certainly not having second thoughts on the location because its so important for me to be able to see it every day, but I want to know what every one else thinks of it in general. Does any one else have any tattoos? And do you think it affects the parents opinion of your business?
SquirrellyMama 09:02 AM 03-26-2013
I think it could affect how some people view your business and I think it is their right to have that opinion. I also think it is your right to have your tattoos. If it bothers someone and they don't choose you for that reason then it wouldn't have been the best fit for either party.
I'm not a huge fan of tattoos but I wouldn't base my decision on them.
ETA: Funny tattoo story. When my SIL got married one of her bridesmaids has several visible tattoos. Many were not church appropriate. They had her wrap gauze around the offensive tattoos. She ended up looking like she had been in a fight before the wedding with all the gauze and bandages
They would have been better off letting the tattoos show because I think most people wouldn't have noticed or wouldn't have known what the tattoos meant.
K
I'm not a huge fan of tattoos but I wouldn't base my decision on them.
ETA: Funny tattoo story. When my SIL got married one of her bridesmaids has several visible tattoos. Many were not church appropriate. They had her wrap gauze around the offensive tattoos. She ended up looking like she had been in a fight before the wedding with all the gauze and bandages
They would have been better off letting the tattoos show because I think most people wouldn't have noticed or wouldn't have known what the tattoos meant.K
youretooloud 09:07 AM 03-26-2013
I think it would be regional. Certain parts of the U.S you'd be more likely to see piercings and tattoos than others. If it was uncommon in your area, it might make a parent feel uncomfortable.
I, personally think moderation is everything. I don't like gauging ears.. I think it looks like a stupid mistake that is going to cost someone a lot of money to fix in a few years when that person realizes it looked stupid.
I also don't like some piercings. But, I don't usually notice most of them, unless it's huge. My niece has a ring in her nose that looks like horns. She can't get the job promotion she wants (working in medical sales) because she refuses to remove the horns from her nose. (same niece has thick black gargoyle wings tattooed on her back.)
Tattoos are so common, it's more unusual to see someone without tattoos.
Some parents won't get past the initial appearance to find out the quality of care. But, most tend to overlook appearance and don't mind.
I, personally think moderation is everything. I don't like gauging ears.. I think it looks like a stupid mistake that is going to cost someone a lot of money to fix in a few years when that person realizes it looked stupid.
I also don't like some piercings. But, I don't usually notice most of them, unless it's huge. My niece has a ring in her nose that looks like horns. She can't get the job promotion she wants (working in medical sales) because she refuses to remove the horns from her nose. (same niece has thick black gargoyle wings tattooed on her back.)
Tattoos are so common, it's more unusual to see someone without tattoos.
Some parents won't get past the initial appearance to find out the quality of care. But, most tend to overlook appearance and don't mind.
Blackcat31 09:08 AM 03-26-2013
I am going to be 100% honest here with my reply but before I do, I want to say that I am also aware that times have changed and what is socially acceptable now is not always in line with what I believe.
I do NOT have any tattoos and do not plan to ever get one.
I DO think it does and can affect your business as many parents do not like tattoos or view them as appropriate.
I grew up in a time that tattoos were for "bad ass" people (LOL!
) and for people in the military.
Do I judge people for having tattoos. Yes. Sometimes I do. Obviously my judgment is NOT solely based on a tattoo and more so the overall package....kwim?
As a business owner, I would tread carefully when hiring someone with tattoos based on MY personal beliefs and my upbringing.
FWIW~ I do have several friends (both male and female) and a few family members who have tattoos and honestly, to each his own. I do make assumptions when I see a tattoo but it doesn't mean I base my relationships on whether someone does or doesn't have one.
I make judgments and assumptions on all sorts of first impressions but I am also mature enough and old enough to know to never judge a book by it's cover.
If you want one get one. If a family has an issue with it, like anything else we do in our personal lives, it really isn't their business and if it does bother them, they are free to find a tattoo-less provider.
HTH
I do NOT have any tattoos and do not plan to ever get one.
I DO think it does and can affect your business as many parents do not like tattoos or view them as appropriate.
I grew up in a time that tattoos were for "bad ass" people (LOL!
) and for people in the military. Do I judge people for having tattoos. Yes. Sometimes I do. Obviously my judgment is NOT solely based on a tattoo and more so the overall package....kwim?
As a business owner, I would tread carefully when hiring someone with tattoos based on MY personal beliefs and my upbringing.
FWIW~ I do have several friends (both male and female) and a few family members who have tattoos and honestly, to each his own. I do make assumptions when I see a tattoo but it doesn't mean I base my relationships on whether someone does or doesn't have one.
I make judgments and assumptions on all sorts of first impressions but I am also mature enough and old enough to know to never judge a book by it's cover.
If you want one get one. If a family has an issue with it, like anything else we do in our personal lives, it really isn't their business and if it does bother them, they are free to find a tattoo-less provider.
HTH
Evansmom 09:08 AM 03-26-2013
I have a very visible and pretty large tattoo on my inner left forearm. I've never covered it for interviews, never had a problem that I know of. Tattoos are pretty common these days.
Edit to add: if someone took offense to my tattoo I wouldn't want to work with that type of person anyway. So our feelings would be mutual.
Edit to add: if someone took offense to my tattoo I wouldn't want to work with that type of person anyway. So our feelings would be mutual.
JLH 09:21 AM 03-26-2013
I have a large tribal art tattoo on my chest. It is very hard to hide but I do make an effort to cover it up with high collared shirts during tours and interviews. I've had centers that I worked at when I was younger ask me to cover it but it has never been a problem since I own my own home daycare. I'm sure I may have lost a tour or 2 because of it without knowing why, but you definitely can't please everyone out there and you will go crazy trying.
AnneCordelia 09:21 AM 03-26-2013
People will judge for tattoos and piercings. Its one reason I won't let my sons pierce their ears until adulthood....because even if it closes up the hole will still be in the ear, and in Tue white collar world that is frowned upon.
My dh is covered in tattoos. No piercings. He covers his tattoos at his white collar job for social judgment reasons.
I have tattoos on my back that are visible in the summer when I wear tank tops. My parents never know I have them until after they sign on, as I keep them covered during the interview process.
My dh is covered in tattoos. No piercings. He covers his tattoos at his white collar job for social judgment reasons.
I have tattoos on my back that are visible in the summer when I wear tank tops. My parents never know I have them until after they sign on, as I keep them covered during the interview process.
Brooksie 09:33 AM 03-26-2013
Originally Posted by Evansmom:
I have a very visible and pretty large tattoo on my inner left forearm. I've never covered it for interviews, never had a problem that I know of. Tattoos are pretty common these days.
Edit to add: if someone took offense to my tattoo I wouldn't want to work with that type of person anyway. So our feelings would be mutual.
I have a very visible and pretty large tattoo on my inner left forearm. I've never covered it for interviews, never had a problem that I know of. Tattoos are pretty common these days.
Edit to add: if someone took offense to my tattoo I wouldn't want to work with that type of person anyway. So our feelings would be mutual.
My boyfriend is a very successful professional tattoo artist and I truly see myself being with this guy for the rest of my life. His arms are covered and his ears are gauged (completely acceptable for his line of work) so in the future this is going to probably be a normal thing around here. I think all my clients can tell we are a little more alternative around here but they all rave about the care and professionalism I provide and exude.
Little Star75 09:36 AM 03-26-2013
At first I wondered the same thing, I have a total of 5 tattoos and only 2 are visible I have 4 colorful stars on my hand near the thumb and one big one on the upper side of my right leg, that one is only visible during summer when I wear shorts. I also have a small piercing on my lip (stud) however when the food program lady came she told me I had to take it off if corporate ever came to visit She said it doesn't look professional 
as far as parents.... I don't think they care they all have tattoos everywhere lol 
as far as parents.... I don't think they care they all have tattoos everywhere lol
daycarediva 09:41 AM 03-26-2013
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
I am going to be 100% honest here with my reply but before I do, I want to say that I am also aware that times have changed and what is socially acceptable now is not always in line with what I believe.
I do NOT have any tattoos and do not plan to ever get one.
I DO think it does and can affect your business as many parents do not like tattoos or view them as appropriate.
I grew up in a time that tattoos were for "bad ass" people (LOL!) and for people in the military.
Do I judge people for having tattoos. Yes. Sometimes I do. Obviously my judgment is NOT solely based on a tattoo and more so the overall package....kwim?
As a business owner, I would tread carefully when hiring someone with tattoos based on MY personal beliefs and my upbringing.
FWIW~ I do have several friends (both male and female) and a few family members who have tattoos and honestly, to each his own. I do make assumptions when I see a tattoo but it doesn't mean I base my relationships on whether someone does or doesn't have one.
I make judgments and assumptions on all sorts of first impressions but I am also mature enough and old enough to know to never judge a book by it's cover.
If you want one get one. If a family has an issue with it, like anything else we do in our personal lives, it really isn't their business and if it does bother them, they are free to find a tattoo-less provider.
HTH
This. I am going to be 100% honest here with my reply but before I do, I want to say that I am also aware that times have changed and what is socially acceptable now is not always in line with what I believe.
I do NOT have any tattoos and do not plan to ever get one.
I DO think it does and can affect your business as many parents do not like tattoos or view them as appropriate.
I grew up in a time that tattoos were for "bad ass" people (LOL!
) and for people in the military. Do I judge people for having tattoos. Yes. Sometimes I do. Obviously my judgment is NOT solely based on a tattoo and more so the overall package....kwim?
As a business owner, I would tread carefully when hiring someone with tattoos based on MY personal beliefs and my upbringing.
FWIW~ I do have several friends (both male and female) and a few family members who have tattoos and honestly, to each his own. I do make assumptions when I see a tattoo but it doesn't mean I base my relationships on whether someone does or doesn't have one.
I make judgments and assumptions on all sorts of first impressions but I am also mature enough and old enough to know to never judge a book by it's cover.
If you want one get one. If a family has an issue with it, like anything else we do in our personal lives, it really isn't their business and if it does bother them, they are free to find a tattoo-less provider.
HTH
Several of my dcm's have multiple tattoos and are wonderful people/parents but it just isn't my cup of tea. I also think that MANY of them are going to be regretted later. (like my bff's ex husbands NAME tattooed on her butt!)
I also don't have numerous piercings (ears and belly button, which is never visible to dcp's) or do crazy things with my hair. I'm pretty plain jane.
CedarCreek 09:44 AM 03-26-2013
I have 2 that are covered and one that is on my inner wrist. No one had ever complained about it,I think it's very tasteful. I attached a pic. Like a pp said though,I wouldn't want them here if they were offended any way.
Dh is pretty heavy in the tattoos but nothing on his forearms or wrist or hands. His line of work wouldn't allow it and he prides himself on his professionalism.
Dh is pretty heavy in the tattoos but nothing on his forearms or wrist or hands. His line of work wouldn't allow it and he prides himself on his professionalism.
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laundrymom 10:02 AM 03-26-2013
I have one on my foot. It's the birth flowers of my kids. About the size of a bandaid. I love it. I don't know if it's ever
kept someone from choosing me. Personally, don't care. ;-/
kept someone from choosing me. Personally, don't care. ;-/
My3cents 10:10 AM 03-26-2013
I am going to make a poll
just_peachy 10:31 AM 03-26-2013
I plan on getting one fairly large tattoo that will be visible in a tee shirt. Honestly, I value the meaning behind the tattoo and what it means to me far more than I value an unaccepting DCP. But I'm in a fairly liberal area and I don't think anyone would even bat an eye.
EntropyControlSpecialist 10:35 AM 03-26-2013
I had several piercings but took out 1 (small nose stud) because I felt that it wasn't professional. I have nothing against those that do work with them in, it was just a personal feeling. One isn't visible (so, no worries there!) and then I have my ears pierced.
My only tattoo isn't visible either. It's a mother's heart on my upper outer thigh, so no one sees it unless I'm married to them. I'm a modest dresser.
If I get another tattoo in the future, it won't be visible either. Personal preference.
My only tattoo isn't visible either. It's a mother's heart on my upper outer thigh, so no one sees it unless I'm married to them.
I'm a modest dresser. If I get another tattoo in the future, it won't be visible either. Personal preference.
Sugar Magnolia 10:36 AM 03-26-2013
I don't care for tattoos, but my personal feelings are irrelevant.
I think if you act, dress and generally look professional, who cares? Now, if you are shlepping around in dirty or suggestive clothes and acting like a biker, the tats might be a problem....but since you are not, be proud of your tats.
I ride a motorcycle, so not bashing bikers!
I think if you act, dress and generally look professional, who cares? Now, if you are shlepping around in dirty or suggestive clothes and acting like a biker, the tats might be a problem....but since you are not, be proud of your tats.
I ride a motorcycle, so not bashing bikers!
mom2many 10:39 AM 03-26-2013
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
I am going to be 100% honest here with my reply but before I do, I want to say that I am also aware that times have changed and what is socially acceptable now is not always in line with what I believe.
I do NOT have any tattoos and do not plan to ever get one.
I DO think it does and can affect your business as many parents do not like tattoos or view them as appropriate.
I grew up in a time that tattoos were for "bad ass" people (LOL!) and for people in the military.
Do I judge people for having tattoos. Yes. Sometimes I do. Obviously my judgment is NOT solely based on a tattoo and more so the overall package....kwim?
As a business owner, I would tread carefully when hiring someone with tattoos based on MY personal beliefs and my upbringing.
FWIW~ I do have several friends (both male and female) and a few family members who have tattoos and honestly, to each his own. I do make assumptions when I see a tattoo but it doesn't mean I base my relationships on whether someone does or doesn't have one.
I make judgments and assumptions on all sorts of first impressions but I am also mature enough and old enough to know to never judge a book by it's cover.
If you want one get one. If a family has an issue with it, like anything else we do in our personal lives, it really isn't their business and if it does bother them, they are free to find a tattoo-less provider.
HTH
This is exactly how I feel too!I am going to be 100% honest here with my reply but before I do, I want to say that I am also aware that times have changed and what is socially acceptable now is not always in line with what I believe.
I do NOT have any tattoos and do not plan to ever get one.
I DO think it does and can affect your business as many parents do not like tattoos or view them as appropriate.
I grew up in a time that tattoos were for "bad ass" people (LOL!
) and for people in the military. Do I judge people for having tattoos. Yes. Sometimes I do. Obviously my judgment is NOT solely based on a tattoo and more so the overall package....kwim?
As a business owner, I would tread carefully when hiring someone with tattoos based on MY personal beliefs and my upbringing.
FWIW~ I do have several friends (both male and female) and a few family members who have tattoos and honestly, to each his own. I do make assumptions when I see a tattoo but it doesn't mean I base my relationships on whether someone does or doesn't have one.
I make judgments and assumptions on all sorts of first impressions but I am also mature enough and old enough to know to never judge a book by it's cover.
If you want one get one. If a family has an issue with it, like anything else we do in our personal lives, it really isn't their business and if it does bother them, they are free to find a tattoo-less provider.
HTH
LK5kids 10:41 AM 03-26-2013
I don't have tattoos
I don't want any.
I think a ton of them.....a whole arm sleeve, etc. might be a negative for some parents.
I think one or two that show is not a big deal.
I don't think most parents in my area would bat an eye at a tastefully done tattoo.
I don't want any.
I think a ton of them.....a whole arm sleeve, etc. might be a negative for some parents.
I think one or two that show is not a big deal.
I don't think most parents in my area would bat an eye at a tastefully done tattoo.
Lyss 10:46 AM 03-26-2013
I have tattoos but they are covered all the time, mainly because of their position (upper back/shoulder) and I see nothing wrong with tattoos unless they are obviously offensive (like swastikas, gang symbols, foul language...). That said I do understand that no matter how much the world has changed there is still a stigma. This is my business and I'm not going to lose a good client because of a tattoo showing.
DH has many, nearly a full sleeve on one arm and one on his other forearm plus ones on both legs. Nothing offensive, mostly all bike (petal bikes, not motorcycle) related and a few from his punk rock days but those aren't visible thankfully. However if he's around during interviews or new parents I have the same rule his work does, cover them up. Currently I've been more relaxed with that rule because all my DCPs are laid back and have tattoos of their own but if I had a new DCP start he'd have to go back to cover up.
DH has many, nearly a full sleeve on one arm and one on his other forearm plus ones on both legs. Nothing offensive, mostly all bike (petal bikes, not motorcycle) related and a few from his punk rock days but those aren't visible thankfully. However if he's around during interviews or new parents I have the same rule his work does, cover them up. Currently I've been more relaxed with that rule because all my DCPs are laid back and have tattoos of their own but if I had a new DCP start he'd have to go back to cover up.
mema 10:56 AM 03-26-2013
I have one on my upper back. I got it right after I turned 18. My dad didn't know I had it until the morning of my wedding at 20. I don't know that any of my dcp's have ever seen it. Dh has 3-all able to be covered. The dck's and parents have seen the one on his bicep (barbed wire), but not the one on his back or chest.
I personally wouldn't get anything large where it would be visible to anyone. That is just me. Would I take my children somewhere that someone had a lot of visible ones......depends on my gut feeling about the person. I try not to judge people by the way they dress, but it is hard. Someone could be dressed professionally and be the biggest "b" also.
. I don't know that any of my dcp's have ever seen it. Dh has 3-all able to be covered. The dck's and parents have seen the one on his bicep (barbed wire), but not the one on his back or chest. I personally wouldn't get anything large where it would be visible to anyone. That is just me. Would I take my children somewhere that someone had a lot of visible ones......depends on my gut feeling about the person. I try not to judge people by the way they dress, but it is hard. Someone could be dressed professionally and be the biggest "b" also.
littlemissmuffet 11:30 AM 03-26-2013
I grew up with a tattoo artist, and I am covered in them. I also have five facial piercings. I don't know too many people nowadays that either a) don't have tattoos/piercings themselves or b) actually care if other people do. It's the norm these days. My tattoos/piercings have never negatively affected any of my jobs since I have had them (started tatts/rings at age 15). I also DON'T CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK! I live my life for me, not others. If someone wants to pass judgement, I'll pass it right back.
I live my life for me, not others. If someone wants to pass judgement, I'll pass it right back.
MyAngels 11:42 AM 03-26-2013
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
I am going to be 100% honest here with my reply but before I do, I want to say that I am also aware that times have changed and what is socially acceptable now is not always in line with what I believe.
I do NOT have any tattoos and do not plan to ever get one.
I DO think it does and can affect your business as many parents do not like tattoos or view them as appropriate.
I grew up in a time that tattoos were for "bad ass" people (LOL!) and for people in the military.
Do I judge people for having tattoos. Yes. Sometimes I do. Obviously my judgment is NOT solely based on a tattoo and more so the overall package....kwim?
As a business owner, I would tread carefully when hiring someone with tattoos based on MY personal beliefs and my upbringing.
FWIW~ I do have several friends (both male and female) and a few family members who have tattoos and honestly, to each his own. I do make assumptions when I see a tattoo but it doesn't mean I base my relationships on whether someone does or doesn't have one.
I make judgments and assumptions on all sorts of first impressions but I am also mature enough and old enough to know to never judge a book by it's cover.
If you want one get one. If a family has an issue with it, like anything else we do in our personal lives, it really isn't their business and if it does bother them, they are free to find a tattoo-less provider.
HTH
This is how I am, too I am going to be 100% honest here with my reply but before I do, I want to say that I am also aware that times have changed and what is socially acceptable now is not always in line with what I believe.
I do NOT have any tattoos and do not plan to ever get one.
I DO think it does and can affect your business as many parents do not like tattoos or view them as appropriate.
I grew up in a time that tattoos were for "bad ass" people (LOL!
) and for people in the military. Do I judge people for having tattoos. Yes. Sometimes I do. Obviously my judgment is NOT solely based on a tattoo and more so the overall package....kwim?
As a business owner, I would tread carefully when hiring someone with tattoos based on MY personal beliefs and my upbringing.
FWIW~ I do have several friends (both male and female) and a few family members who have tattoos and honestly, to each his own. I do make assumptions when I see a tattoo but it doesn't mean I base my relationships on whether someone does or doesn't have one.
I make judgments and assumptions on all sorts of first impressions but I am also mature enough and old enough to know to never judge a book by it's cover.
If you want one get one. If a family has an issue with it, like anything else we do in our personal lives, it really isn't their business and if it does bother them, they are free to find a tattoo-less provider.
HTH
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Brooksie 11:43 AM 03-26-2013
Originally Posted by littlemissmuffet:
I grew up with a tattoo artist, and I am covered in them. I also have five facial piercings. I don't know too many people nowadays that either a) don't have tattoos/piercings themselves or b) actually care if other people do. It's the norm these days. My tattoos/piercings have never negatively affected any of my jobs since I have had them (started tatts/rings at age 15). I also DON'T CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK! I live my life for me, not others. If someone wants to pass judgement, I'll pass it right back.
I grew up with a tattoo artist, and I am covered in them. I also have five facial piercings. I don't know too many people nowadays that either a) don't have tattoos/piercings themselves or b) actually care if other people do. It's the norm these days. My tattoos/piercings have never negatively affected any of my jobs since I have had them (started tatts/rings at age 15). I also DON'T CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK!
I live my life for me, not others. If someone wants to pass judgement, I'll pass it right back.
AfterSchoolMom 11:51 AM 03-26-2013
I have both, and as far as I know, it's never kept me from getting business. Most people don't even notice them.
To each their own!
To each their own!
Meyou 12:08 PM 03-26-2013
I have a full back piece and it's never been a problem. As I said in the other thread if my tattoo is the defining factor in choosing me as a DCP or not then we're probably not a good fit anyway.
Patches 03:21 PM 03-26-2013
This is my leg
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I don't wear pants when it's hot and I don't try to cover it.
ETA: I meant that as I wear shorts or capris when it's hot, not that I walk around half naked in the summer
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I don't wear pants when it's hot and I don't try to cover it.
ETA: I meant that as I wear shorts or capris when it's hot, not that I walk around half naked in the summer
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Brooksie 05:39 PM 03-26-2013
Originally Posted by Patches:
This is my leg
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I don't wear pants when it's hot and I don't try to cover it.
ETA: I meant that as I wear shorts or capris when it's hot, not that I walk around half naked in the summer
This made me laugh out loud! Love the edit This is my leg
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I don't wear pants when it's hot and I don't try to cover it.
ETA: I meant that as I wear shorts or capris when it's hot, not that I walk around half naked in the summer
Also, I love that tattoo!! That's my favorite childrens book. Still have my original
LaLa1923 05:54 PM 03-26-2013
I don't think it would affect your business at all.
I don't have any tattoos, but I do have my ears pierced, tongue, and nose. I never really thought about other peoples opinions.
I don't have any tattoos, but I do have my ears pierced, tongue, and nose. I never really thought about other peoples opinions.
Zoe 05:56 PM 03-26-2013
I have a dolphin on my right shoulder blade. In the summers it would be really nice to wear a tank top but I'm too scared that someone will think it's unprofessional. So I suffer in silence. Maybe if I knew no parents were going to show up when we were outside I would shed a layer.
MrsSteinel'sHouse 06:05 PM 03-26-2013
Honestly, As a parent, it would have affected my decision. I would not have chosen a provider with tattoos or piercings. So I guess in answer to your question, yes, it could affect you business.
Patches 06:32 PM 03-26-2013
Originally Posted by MrsSteinel'sHouse:
Honestly, As a parent, it would have affected my decision. I would not have chosen a provider with tattoos or piercings. So I guess in answer to your question, yes, it could affect you business.
I have to agree that, yes, it could affect business. I see nothing wrong with it other people do. It's a matter of personal opinion. Honestly, As a parent, it would have affected my decision. I would not have chosen a provider with tattoos or piercings. So I guess in answer to your question, yes, it could affect you business.
I got my lip pierced when I was in high school and I was "jobbing out" (kind of like internship) at a local elementary school. Well, whe the principal saw it he LAYED INTO ME! He yelled at me and said that he would NEVER leave his child with someone with a lip piercing
Everyone's different. I'm just glad I don't have a boss to yell at me for these things now
Texasjeepgirl 12:19 PM 04-23-2013
Well I had to search the forum to find this thread but I knew there would be one...
I got a tattoo this past Sunday...
I have NO IDEA how to do those thumbnail pictures.. I wish someone could teach me... I'd post a pic or two.. but...
This is the email I sent out to my family.. primarily my mom and daughters...
I wasn't thrilled when Christi Nicole ( my oldest daughter.. about to turn 23) got her first tattoo.. or her second... or third.. or 4,5, or 6th...
And Charli (my younger daughter, 18) has 2 now also....
I always said NEVER ... not me.. no tattoo's for me.
BUT...
The last few months.. I've changed my mind about lots of things in life....
I just decided that hey...
You only live once..
and frankly...
that tummy/hysterectomy scar and stretch marks were not ever going to look any better..
so what the Hell....
I am secure and confident in my decision...
It was for sure a very very personal choice to do it..
and... I am proud that I did..
I was careful to place it where it is only seen if I show someone...
My girlfriend was with me.. she got a cursive letter 'B' on her shoulder...
Personally.. I would not do that..
It will show every time she wears a racer back tank top...
I also am glad I decided against getting a foot tattoo..
I had considered the 'white ink' tattoo on my foot.. I have a friend that has one...
it barely shows..which is why I liked the idea...
but.. if you do a regular colored tattoo on your foot .. every time you wear sandals of any kind..
every one sees it..
and.. what about when you dress up.. like for church.. or a formal thing like a wedding?
and there is that tattoo...
Any way...
Obviously it will be seen with a bikini... but... otherwise.. you'll only know I have it if I choose to show you...
and that makes me happy...
I think it is positively beautiful... and it makes me feel pretty sexy ..
Mark (my dear wonderful husband) totally loves it...He actually worked with the tattoo artist to help design it...
and.. he is going back to same artist this next Sunday... for his..
We obviously didn't know this tattoo artist... before... but.. in the end..
He is a really cool guy.. doesn't drink.. ever... hates the taste of alcohol.. very smart... very very smart...and.. funny... we all had a blast for the 2 1/2 hours of my tattoo...
well.. except that I had to do allot of very deep breathing.. in.. and out.. in.. and out.. relax
I got a tattoo this past Sunday...
I have NO IDEA how to do those thumbnail pictures.. I wish someone could teach me... I'd post a pic or two.. but...
This is the email I sent out to my family.. primarily my mom and daughters...
I wasn't thrilled when Christi Nicole ( my oldest daughter.. about to turn 23) got her first tattoo.. or her second... or third.. or 4,5, or 6th...
And Charli (my younger daughter, 18) has 2 now also....
I always said NEVER ... not me.. no tattoo's for me.
BUT...
The last few months.. I've changed my mind about lots of things in life....
I just decided that hey...
You only live once..
and frankly...
that tummy/hysterectomy scar and stretch marks were not ever going to look any better..
so what the Hell....
I am secure and confident in my decision...
It was for sure a very very personal choice to do it..
and... I am proud that I did..
I was careful to place it where it is only seen if I show someone...
My girlfriend was with me.. she got a cursive letter 'B' on her shoulder...
Personally.. I would not do that..
It will show every time she wears a racer back tank top...
I also am glad I decided against getting a foot tattoo..
I had considered the 'white ink' tattoo on my foot.. I have a friend that has one...
it barely shows..which is why I liked the idea...
but.. if you do a regular colored tattoo on your foot .. every time you wear sandals of any kind..
every one sees it..
and.. what about when you dress up.. like for church.. or a formal thing like a wedding?
and there is that tattoo...
Any way...
Obviously it will be seen with a bikini... but... otherwise.. you'll only know I have it if I choose to show you...
and that makes me happy...
I think it is positively beautiful... and it makes me feel pretty sexy ..
Mark (my dear wonderful husband) totally loves it...He actually worked with the tattoo artist to help design it...
and.. he is going back to same artist this next Sunday... for his..
We obviously didn't know this tattoo artist... before... but.. in the end..
He is a really cool guy.. doesn't drink.. ever... hates the taste of alcohol.. very smart... very very smart...and.. funny... we all had a blast for the 2 1/2 hours of my tattoo...
well.. except that I had to do allot of very deep breathing.. in.. and out.. in.. and out.. relax
Brooksie 12:44 PM 04-23-2013
Originally Posted by Texasjeepgirl:
Well I had to search the forum to find this thread but I knew there would be one...
I got a tattoo this past Sunday...
I have NO IDEA how to do those thumbnail pictures.. I wish someone could teach me... I'd post a pic or two.. but...
This is the email I sent out to my family.. primarily my mom and daughters...
I wasn't thrilled when Christi Nicole ( my oldest daughter.. about to turn 23) got her first tattoo.. or her second... or third.. or 4,5, or 6th...
And Charli (my younger daughter, 18) has 2 now also....
I always said NEVER ... not me.. no tattoo's for me.
BUT...
The last few months.. I've changed my mind about lots of things in life....
I just decided that hey...
You only live once..
and frankly...
that tummy/hysterectomy scar and stretch marks were not ever going to look any better..
so what the Hell....
I am secure and confident in my decision...
It was for sure a very very personal choice to do it..
and... I am proud that I did..
I was careful to place it where it is only seen if I show someone...
My girlfriend was with me.. she got a cursive letter 'B' on her shoulder...
Personally.. I would not do that..
It will show every time she wears a racer back tank top...
I also am glad I decided against getting a foot tattoo..
I had considered the 'white ink' tattoo on my foot.. I have a friend that has one...
it barely shows..which is why I liked the idea...
but.. if you do a regular colored tattoo on your foot .. every time you wear sandals of any kind..
every one sees it..
and.. what about when you dress up.. like for church.. or a formal thing like a wedding?
and there is that tattoo...
Any way...
Obviously it will be seen with a bikini... but... otherwise.. you'll only know I have it if I choose to show you...
and that makes me happy...
I think it is positively beautiful... and it makes me feel pretty sexy ..
Mark (my dear wonderful husband) totally loves it...He actually worked with the tattoo artist to help design it...
and.. he is going back to same artist this next Sunday... for his..
We obviously didn't know this tattoo artist... before... but.. in the end..
He is a really cool guy.. doesn't drink.. ever... hates the taste of alcohol.. very smart... very very smart...and.. funny... we all had a blast for the 2 1/2 hours of my tattoo...
well.. except that I had to do allot of very deep breathing.. in.. and out.. in.. and out.. relax
Well I had to search the forum to find this thread but I knew there would be one...
I got a tattoo this past Sunday...
I have NO IDEA how to do those thumbnail pictures.. I wish someone could teach me... I'd post a pic or two.. but...
This is the email I sent out to my family.. primarily my mom and daughters...
I wasn't thrilled when Christi Nicole ( my oldest daughter.. about to turn 23) got her first tattoo.. or her second... or third.. or 4,5, or 6th...
And Charli (my younger daughter, 18) has 2 now also....
I always said NEVER ... not me.. no tattoo's for me.
BUT...
The last few months.. I've changed my mind about lots of things in life....
I just decided that hey...
You only live once..
and frankly...
that tummy/hysterectomy scar and stretch marks were not ever going to look any better..
so what the Hell....
I am secure and confident in my decision...
It was for sure a very very personal choice to do it..
and... I am proud that I did..
I was careful to place it where it is only seen if I show someone...
My girlfriend was with me.. she got a cursive letter 'B' on her shoulder...
Personally.. I would not do that..
It will show every time she wears a racer back tank top...
I also am glad I decided against getting a foot tattoo..
I had considered the 'white ink' tattoo on my foot.. I have a friend that has one...
it barely shows..which is why I liked the idea...
but.. if you do a regular colored tattoo on your foot .. every time you wear sandals of any kind..
every one sees it..
and.. what about when you dress up.. like for church.. or a formal thing like a wedding?
and there is that tattoo...
Any way...
Obviously it will be seen with a bikini... but... otherwise.. you'll only know I have it if I choose to show you...
and that makes me happy...
I think it is positively beautiful... and it makes me feel pretty sexy ..
Mark (my dear wonderful husband) totally loves it...He actually worked with the tattoo artist to help design it...
and.. he is going back to same artist this next Sunday... for his..
We obviously didn't know this tattoo artist... before... but.. in the end..
He is a really cool guy.. doesn't drink.. ever... hates the taste of alcohol.. very smart... very very smart...and.. funny... we all had a blast for the 2 1/2 hours of my tattoo...
well.. except that I had to do allot of very deep breathing.. in.. and out.. in.. and out.. relax
Starburst 03:35 PM 04-23-2013
I have my ears, nose and lip pierced but I rarely wear them and I have a black star on my lower back. It's kinda hard to find clothing that fits my body type so sometimes my tattoo does show but with parent's I have sat for they never said anything about it and at my old FCC job there were a few older kids that noticed but I would just play it off or ignore it and change the subject. Sometimes in the sun DCKs would notice my nose ring and ask what it is and I would say "it's just a sparkle". And once another DCK noticed the hole in my lip but he was up really close. I would like to get more tattoos/piercing but my fiancé is giving me enough grief lately about "looking professional" and wearing my favorite glow-in-the-dark skeleton hoodie around town (example below). BTW I rarely wear the hoodie zipped up all the way like that unless I am showing someone what it looks like.
I keep telling him 1) I am not even open yet (at least a year or 2 away); 2) I am not planning on opening a FCC in my current town; 3) I see kids walking around all the time in skeleton shirts. One time a DCB wore a skeleton shirt the same day I wore my hoodie, and the provider never said anything about. In fact, the DCB's parent's noticed at pick up time thought it was funny that we matched. Both of DCB's parents work as teachers for the private catholic high school across the street from the FCCH. I have also gotten many complements on it by not only people my own age but also older people as well.
I keep telling him 1) I am not even open yet (at least a year or 2 away); 2) I am not planning on opening a FCC in my current town; 3) I see kids walking around all the time in skeleton shirts. One time a DCB wore a skeleton shirt the same day I wore my hoodie, and the provider never said anything about. In fact, the DCB's parent's noticed at pick up time thought it was funny that we matched. Both of DCB's parents work as teachers for the private catholic high school across the street from the FCCH. I have also gotten many complements on it by not only people my own age but also older people as well.
Cradle2crayons 03:46 PM 04-23-2013
It's a common thing in my area and all my day care parents have them. I have two only visible if I wear a bathing suit and I didn't disclose them. My tongue is pierced too but my parents don't realize it lol.. So is my belly button but they don't know that either lol....
Now, let me say, that if we're the parent and went to interview a provider that had a lot that was visible.... Then I'd do my very best to step back and check out their program and consider ALL parts to it... That's just me though. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. But I'll tell you this, my daughter went to one private provider in her life and she was absolutely terrible in the care department. I'd trade her ANY day for a tattooed, pierced awesome provider
Now, let me say, that if we're the parent and went to interview a provider that had a lot that was visible.... Then I'd do my very best to step back and check out their program and consider ALL parts to it... That's just me though. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. But I'll tell you this, my daughter went to one private provider in her life and she was absolutely terrible in the care department. I'd trade her ANY day for a tattooed, pierced awesome provider
Meeko 06:39 AM 04-24-2013
I admire some tats as works of art, but for the most part I don't like them. I'm old school and (like Blackcat) I too grew up in an era when only "bad ass" people had tats. Right or wrong...it's how I look at them.
I have always wondered if many people think passed the initial idea of getting the tattoo. What looks "cool" on a 20 year old's body, may look downright stupid when she's 60, KWIM? I have known several people who deeply regret their tattoos when they get older.
At the same time, I have known people who have had a tattoo done for deeply personal reasons, not just a fashion statement.
Many of you are familiar with the reason I don't allow DCP's to hang out at my daycare. We once had a father who liked to hang out and he turned out to be registered child rapist. He had done time in another state, let out of prison because of overcrowding and his willingness to have "therapy"
. He molested his own daughter and is now back in prison.
The child's mother has a beautiful tattoo of her daughter on her shoulder. She did it to remind herself of her commitment to her child and to show her daughter that she will always be her angel (the tat shows her daughter with angel wings). I completely understand how having it done was therapeutic for her.
On the other hand I have a friend at church who is in her mid 50's like me. She had a Winnie The Pooh tat put on her leg in her youth and now she feels like an idiot when she wears a skirt!!! It was so cutsie when she was a young thing....not so much now!
I have always wondered if many people think passed the initial idea of getting the tattoo. What looks "cool" on a 20 year old's body, may look downright stupid when she's 60, KWIM? I have known several people who deeply regret their tattoos when they get older.
At the same time, I have known people who have had a tattoo done for deeply personal reasons, not just a fashion statement.
Many of you are familiar with the reason I don't allow DCP's to hang out at my daycare. We once had a father who liked to hang out and he turned out to be registered child rapist. He had done time in another state, let out of prison because of overcrowding and his willingness to have "therapy"
. He molested his own daughter and is now back in prison. The child's mother has a beautiful tattoo of her daughter on her shoulder. She did it to remind herself of her commitment to her child and to show her daughter that she will always be her angel (the tat shows her daughter with angel wings). I completely understand how having it done was therapeutic for her.
On the other hand I have a friend at church who is in her mid 50's like me. She had a Winnie The Pooh tat put on her leg in her youth and now she feels like an idiot when she wears a skirt!!! It was so cutsie when she was a young thing....not so much now!
scarletto'hara 07:09 AM 04-24-2013
I was director at a church daycare center .... and got a tattoo done on my ankle, it wasnt very big (4 stars for my 4 children), was done as something that was very meaningful for me; and was perfect for that time in my life. I loved it then .... still do 8 years later. However ..... the pastor, leadership of the church was very angry with me for getting a tattoo and told me that. They made a written rule shortly after that no staff member could have a tattoo. I left shortly after that, for other reasons. I do realize that there are parameters for professionalism, but in this day and time its more common to see people with tattoos. Everything in moderation
craftymissbeth 07:20 AM 04-24-2013
This is something I'm a little worried about. I have a tattoo on my ankle of angel wings. It's pretty big for an ankle tattoo... it's maybe 3-4 inches tall. I'm worried that I'll be judged for having a tattoo that will be visible to children (because I have no intention of wearing long pants in the heat of summer 
).
Thing is, this tattoo means so much to me. It's in honor of my nephew who died from SIDS 4 years ago. It was a very difficult time in my entire family's life and my sisters (one of them being his mom) and I all got the same angel wing tattoos in remembrance of him. Granted, they both got full back angel wings, but I'm too chicken for that!
Anyway, I know that parents aren't going to know how important my tattoo is to me... some of them may just immediately think it's trashy. I'm ok with that, but it does make me nervous. I don't know many people who enjoy being judged like that. KWIM?
). Thing is, this tattoo means so much to me. It's in honor of my nephew who died from SIDS 4 years ago. It was a very difficult time in my entire family's life and my sisters (one of them being his mom) and I all got the same angel wing tattoos in remembrance of him. Granted, they both got full back angel wings, but I'm too chicken for that!
Anyway, I know that parents aren't going to know how important my tattoo is to me... some of them may just immediately think it's trashy. I'm ok with that, but it does make me nervous. I don't know many people who enjoy being judged like that. KWIM?
AmyKidsCo 11:25 AM 04-24-2013
I personally have nothing against tattoos, but I think that if you ask any businessman (like Donald Trump) they'd say tattoos aren't professional. I don't have any visible tattoos and don't plan to get any. I teach Saturday morning band in a parochial school and direct my church's handbell choir, and know that tattoos would be frowned upon there.
preschoolteacher 11:35 AM 04-24-2013
I personally do not have any tattoos or piercings (besides my ears), and I would never get any.
As for other people with tattoos/piercings, it all depends on the message the person is sending... as with all things about the way people presents themselves. If I don't like the message I'm getting, I wouldn't be likely to enroll my child in their care.
The people I know who are heavily tattooed all tend to be artists or people who break away from the norm a little bit--not in a rebellious way or a bad-ass way, but in a "I'm an original" kind of way. Their tattoos are often really beautiful or meaningful or both. These kind of tattoos are totally okay with me.
We can all think of other kinds of tattoos that probably aren't so positive. If I met someone covered in tattoos that were violent in nature, or dark (meaning creepy or disturbing) or sexually suggestive, then no... I wouldn't choose that person for childcare.
As for other people with tattoos/piercings, it all depends on the message the person is sending... as with all things about the way people presents themselves. If I don't like the message I'm getting, I wouldn't be likely to enroll my child in their care.
The people I know who are heavily tattooed all tend to be artists or people who break away from the norm a little bit--not in a rebellious way or a bad-ass way, but in a "I'm an original" kind of way. Their tattoos are often really beautiful or meaningful or both. These kind of tattoos are totally okay with me.
We can all think of other kinds of tattoos that probably aren't so positive. If I met someone covered in tattoos that were violent in nature, or dark (meaning creepy or disturbing) or sexually suggestive, then no... I wouldn't choose that person for childcare.
iheartkids 11:41 AM 04-24-2013
I think if you present yourself in a professional manner than it won't effect your business. If I were a new parent and during the interview you were dressed nice, showed pleasant mannerisms and showed love towards my children I wouldn't think twice of the tattoo. If you looked sloppy, let a curse word slip out and portrayed yourself as a "I don't give a $+%#" attitude then the tattoo is going to go on my list of reasons why I won't choose you, know what I mean? I do agree that you may have to work harder at trying to win some parents over, but that is for you to decide.
tjones34 11:50 AM 04-24-2013
Hmmmm. In MD they are very common, I never even thought about what my parents think or may think about my tattoos. I have 8 tattoos and all but 2 are visible. They all have meaning. I plan on getting 2 more this summer...I have no plans of covering up on purpose to please anyone. If you pre-judge me because I have tattoos then that makes you ignorant not me. Please don't let anyone dictate how you live your life, or run your business. Be you and express yourself accordingly!!! 
Michelle 12:39 PM 04-24-2013
I'm with Black Cat... in fact I think we are sisters separated at birth because we have so many of the same beliefs
I was at a restaurant a few months back and the waitress had some very rude and disgusting drug/Satan tattoos on her arms, hands and fingers...
It scared my daughter and we just didn't eat there and left.
I know in my mind having tattoos does not make you dirty, but in the food industry or personal care industry..I don't think they should be on the hands arms or fingers!
Just my opinion
I was at a restaurant a few months back and the waitress had some very rude and disgusting drug/Satan tattoos on her arms, hands and fingers...
It scared my daughter and we just didn't eat there and left.
I know in my mind having tattoos does not make you dirty, but in the food industry or personal care industry..I don't think they should be on the hands arms or fingers!
Just my opinion