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daycarediva 06:59 AM 05-20-2013
I HATE IT, and it's the ONLY reason I really don't look forward to Monday mornings!!!!!!!!!!!!
What happens to my sweet kids over the weekend? They don't listen, they push, they refuse to clean up, and are absolutely miserable!
Do your kids do this too? I feel like every Monday they need to learn to behave like humans (instead of animals) and by Wednesday we have it down, only to rinse and repeat again Monday.
What happens to my sweet kids over the weekend? They don't listen, they push, they refuse to clean up, and are absolutely miserable!
Do your kids do this too? I feel like every Monday they need to learn to behave like humans (instead of animals) and by Wednesday we have it down, only to rinse and repeat again Monday.
Mom2Five+ 07:19 AM 05-20-2013
I'm right there with you. You are not alone. It's like they have no discipline at home and just do whatever they want.
Happy Monday to you and praying it gets better
Happy Monday to you and praying it gets better
GoodKarma 07:20 AM 05-20-2013
I don't currently have that problem, but have experienced it with some groups. My kids are just a little tired on Monday.
Blackcat31 07:33 AM 05-20-2013
Originally Posted by GoodKarma:
I don't currently have that problem, but have experienced it with some groups. My kids are just a little tired on Monday.
Same here. Mondays are usually pretty good as all the kiddos are a little more tired than usual.I don't currently have that problem, but have experienced it with some groups. My kids are just a little tired on Monday.
They are also really excided to get back to "school" and playing with their friends so I don't mind Mondays at all.
crazydaycarelady 07:59 AM 05-20-2013
I have that too with several of my kids. After a weekend of no boundaries they come to me Monday morning whiney and exhausted. I imagine teachers also hate Monday mornings as these kids are useless for learning anything.
Leigh 08:05 AM 05-20-2013
At drop-off: "They'll nap good for you today, I didn't get them to bed until 10:30, and they wouldn't even go to sleep then". Now they're tired, crabby, violent, and defiant. Thanks, Mom.
MarinaVanessa 08:13 AM 05-20-2013
Originally Posted by Leigh:
At drop-off: "They'll nap good for you today, I didn't get them to bed until 10:30, and they wouldn't even go to sleep then". Now they're tired, crabby, violent, and defiant. Thanks, Mom.
I bet they'd be pissed if you napped them early and then sent them home later cranky because they were tired again and ready for another nap At drop-off: "They'll nap good for you today, I didn't get them to bed until 10:30, and they wouldn't even go to sleep then". Now they're tired, crabby, violent, and defiant. Thanks, Mom.
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rmc20021 08:33 AM 05-20-2013
I don't USUALLY have a problem with that, but today I have one dcb who was out last week for vacation and today he has been absolutely horrible.
It's obvious he went to bed late last night and he has been so MEAN. He has hit everyone, cried about everything, bitten someone for the first time ever, taken toys, tried to push kids down the slide...you name it and he's done it today.
He is absolutely miserable from being so tired. I'm telling mom today that if he comes like this again I WILL be calling her to come pick him up.
It's obvious he went to bed late last night and he has been so MEAN. He has hit everyone, cried about everything, bitten someone for the first time ever, taken toys, tried to push kids down the slide...you name it and he's done it today.
He is absolutely miserable from being so tired. I'm telling mom today that if he comes like this again I WILL be calling her to come pick him up.
daycarediva 08:34 AM 05-20-2013
Originally Posted by MarinaVanessa:
I bet they'd be pissed if you napped them early and then sent them home later cranky because they were tired again and ready for another nap.
So funny you said this, because that is EXACTLY what I am doing today! I bet they'd be pissed if you napped them early and then sent them home later cranky because they were tired again and ready for another nap
.A dcm told me at drop off "He didn't nap yesterday and wasn't asleep until 11."
dcb got less sleep than I did!
Laurel 09:36 AM 05-20-2013
I've had that happen but not with this group. They are more sleepy on Monday but it just results in taking longer naps.
If I had one that was hitting everyone and mom told me they got in bed late, I'd just give them a short morning nap and then a regular one. I can't see everyone being miserable. If they're tired, they're tired.
Laurel
If I had one that was hitting everyone and mom told me they got in bed late, I'd just give them a short morning nap and then a regular one. I can't see everyone being miserable. If they're tired, they're tired.
Laurel
mema 09:39 AM 05-20-2013
Every Monday dcbaby comes crying and doesn't stop all day, except for possibly a 20-30 minute nap. By Wednesday, I usually can get him to not cry all day, but still not napping well. Friday, only a few minutes of crying and a really good afternoon nap. Sigh. I guess I could just not send him home over the weekend, but I love being able to pick up and go wherever on spur of a moment, so I guess I send him home!
EntropyControlSpecialist 09:50 AM 05-20-2013
Mine make my ears bleed with a lot of whining. I find myself redirecting or correcting the whining constantly on Monday mornings. After nap, things are much better as they are actually well rested, have actually eaten two GOOD meals, and have been reminded of the rules.
EntropyControlSpecialist 09:51 AM 05-20-2013
Originally Posted by daycarediva:
So funny you said this, because that is EXACTLY what I am doing today!
A dcm told me at drop off "He didn't nap yesterday and wasn't asleep until 11."
dcb got less sleep than I did!
So funny you said this, because that is EXACTLY what I am doing today!
A dcm told me at drop off "He didn't nap yesterday and wasn't asleep until 11."
dcb got less sleep than I did!
That's always what I think about and will SAY when a parent tells me that. "Oh, you got less sleep than Ms. ___! You must be EXHAUSTED." The parent looks embarrassed.
Leigh 10:06 AM 05-20-2013
Originally Posted by MarinaVanessa:
I bet they'd be pissed if you napped them early and then sent them home later cranky because they were tired again and ready for another nap.
I actually considered that! 4 y.o. was complaining at 9:30AM that he was SOOOO tired. I offered him a nap. Mom already accuses me of letting him sleep "all day" because she can't get him to behave at bedtime. This one, I actually have to pick up off every horizontal surface of my home multiple times after naps because he is SO tired. Some days I DO let him just keep sleeping. I feel so sorry for this kid being tired all the time-I suggested an earlier bedtime to mom (NO kid should still be up at 10:30!). She says he "doesn't like to go to bed while the sun is still shining". Oh, well, if he didn't WANT to, THEN I understand. LAZIEST parent on the planet, I swear.I bet they'd be pissed if you napped them early and then sent them home later cranky because they were tired again and ready for another nap
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daycarediva 10:08 AM 05-20-2013
Originally Posted by EntropyControlSpecialist:
That's always what I think about and will SAY when a parent tells me that. "Oh, you got less sleep than Ms. ___! You must be EXHAUSTED." The parent looks embarrassed.
I will have to remember to SAY it next time. Sorry, but I think these parents SHOULD be embarrassed. I have just as much to do on the weekends, and my kids still manage to be well rested, well fed and disciplined by Monday morning. That's always what I think about and will SAY when a parent tells me that. "Oh, you got less sleep than Ms. ___! You must be EXHAUSTED." The parent looks embarrassed.
EntropyControlSpecialist 10:11 AM 05-20-2013
Originally Posted by daycarediva:
I will have to remember to SAY it next time. Sorry, but I think these parents SHOULD be embarrassed. I have just as much to do on the weekends, and my kids still manage to be well rested, well fed and disciplined by Monday morning.
My 17-year-old has a bedtime of 10:00PM. Why you wouldn't want your child to be healthy and well rested is beyond me ... I will have to remember to SAY it next time. Sorry, but I think these parents SHOULD be embarrassed. I have just as much to do on the weekends, and my kids still manage to be well rested, well fed and disciplined by Monday morning.
hope 10:35 AM 05-20-2013
I feel like every Monday morning I hear the dcps complain about how fussy the baby was, how the toddler won't nap and the preschoolers are out of control. The kids step right into the routine here and are happy, napping good and practicing their manners. Then I get the text messages from parents asking how bad their kids are?????
A neighbor once told me that she felt quilty sending her kids to care everyday so on the wk ends she broke all the rules and let her kids stay up late, eat cookies for lunch on the couch, and watch as much tv as they wanted. I think some parents feel that breaking the rules will make their kids happy when all they really want is some attention and some structured play. Some kids snap back right into the daycare routine while it takes others a few days. I am very thankful that the group I care for snap back quickly!
A neighbor once told me that she felt quilty sending her kids to care everyday so on the wk ends she broke all the rules and let her kids stay up late, eat cookies for lunch on the couch, and watch as much tv as they wanted. I think some parents feel that breaking the rules will make their kids happy when all they really want is some attention and some structured play. Some kids snap back right into the daycare routine while it takes others a few days. I am very thankful that the group I care for snap back quickly!
Hunni Bee 10:46 AM 05-20-2013
One hit her nose on the door while throwing a tantrum because I wouldn't let her push everybody out of the way to get to the sink. One I asked to go to the next classroom and he spends 20 minutes hiding in the potty. Two didn't take any cereal at breakfast and then cried about it. Three decided to see if they could make their food slide around the plate at lunch...plus my lead teacher is on vacation this week, and I have the ditziest, laziest, most clueless sub we have.
Plus I have to work tomorrow on my "off" day.
Lovely!!
Plus I have to work tomorrow on my "off" day.
Lovely!!
daycarediva 11:03 AM 05-20-2013
I think my early nap plan backfired (for the better, imo) I put them all down an hour earlier, and they should have been up a while ago. Napping for 2.5 hours and counting.
My house is super clean, and my cup of coffee while reading a chapter of a book, in total silence, restored my sanity.
My house is super clean, and my cup of coffee while reading a chapter of a book, in total silence, restored my sanity.
coolconfidentme 11:45 AM 05-20-2013
Dare I wake them up? It's been soooo quiet for the last few hours!!!
EntropyControlSpecialist 12:07 PM 05-20-2013
I say let 'em sleep if you can! 
Leigh 01:35 PM 05-20-2013
Originally Posted by daycarediva:
i think my early nap plan backfired (for the better, imo) i put them all down an hour earlier, and they should have been up a while ago. Napping for 2.5 hours and counting.
My house is super clean, and my cup of coffee while reading a chapter of a book, in total silence, restored my sanity.
j.e.a.l.o.u.s.!!!i think my early nap plan backfired (for the better, imo) i put them all down an hour earlier, and they should have been up a while ago. Napping for 2.5 hours and counting.
My house is super clean, and my cup of coffee while reading a chapter of a book, in total silence, restored my sanity.
Evansmom 01:45 PM 05-20-2013
Oh my gosh, me too you guys!! DCB was on vacation last week, came back today and has been so cranky poor thing. And poor the rest of us having to hear the screaming. Not. Fun.
What is the deal with parents not giving their children enough sleep anyway. This particular DCB has great parents and is usually well rested so I can let this one slide but I have noticed a trend in the last 5 years. Parents too busy with their own schedules to do right by their small children. There is a sleep deprivation epidemic in my area!!
What is the deal with parents not giving their children enough sleep anyway. This particular DCB has great parents and is usually well rested so I can let this one slide but I have noticed a trend in the last 5 years. Parents too busy with their own schedules to do right by their small children. There is a sleep deprivation epidemic in my area!!
MarinaVanessa 03:11 PM 05-20-2013
I say let them sleep until normal wake up time. Personally I wouldn't let them sleep for too long though because if they don't get enough time to burn off the energy you'll just have a repeat of today (child not wanting to sleep at home) and then you'll have to nap early again tomorrow.
I personally put a child down to sleep if they need it whether the parent likes it or not. If a child is tired ... they need to sleep.
I personally put a child down to sleep if they need it whether the parent likes it or not. If a child is tired ... they need to sleep.
Patches 10:11 PM 05-20-2013
I had one get dropped off right in the middle of lunch (I let it slide because it was gpa dropping off because mom is in the hospital--just had a baby yesterday) but he was NOT happy! Screaming and crying and screaming and screaming. Then, as I was getting the cots ready for nap he was still screaming and throwing a fit and another family decided to show up (didn't know they were even coming.....they're almost out the door, btw. A couple more weeks!) and I said, "Well, hi there dcg! Didn't know you were coming and you got here at the busiest time of day." It was hectic and I went about my bsiness and I guess I scared them off because dcd ASKED dcg if she wanted to stay and take a nap or if she wanted to go with him...she picked go with him. So he said, "We were sleeping in, so she would probably be as disruptive as that one" (referring to my fit throwing dcb who was in the procss of stripping his clothes off and try to blow snot out of his snot onto the floor) He saud they would be back in a couple hours but they never came back
But, once I had the cots out, the lights off, and the music on all the kids were out in a minute and slept for an extra 30 minutes
) and I said, "Well, hi there dcg! Didn't know you were coming and you got here at the busiest time of day." It was hectic and I went about my bsiness and I guess I scared them off because dcd ASKED dcg if she wanted to stay and take a nap or if she wanted to go with him...she picked go with him. So he said, "We were sleeping in, so she would probably be as disruptive as that one" (referring to my fit throwing dcb who was in the procss of stripping his clothes off and try to blow snot out of his snot onto the floor) He saud they would be back in a couple hours but they never came backBut, once I had the cots out, the lights off, and the music on all the kids were out in a minute and slept for an extra 30 minutes
daycarediva 03:41 AM 05-21-2013
Originally Posted by MarinaVanessa:
I say let them sleep until normal wake up time. Personally I wouldn't let them sleep for too long though because if they don't get enough time to burn off the energy you'll just have a repeat of today (child not wanting to sleep at home) and then you'll have to nap early again tomorrow.
I personally put a child down to sleep if they need it whether the parent likes it or not. If a child is tired ... they need to sleep.
I let them sleep for an additional hour. They all woke up in AMAZING moods and were so happy the rest of the day. No arguing, no whining, no fighting, NOTHING. Hopefully they are better rested today and we can get back into our normal routine. I say let them sleep until normal wake up time. Personally I wouldn't let them sleep for too long though because if they don't get enough time to burn off the energy you'll just have a repeat of today (child not wanting to sleep at home) and then you'll have to nap early again tomorrow.
I personally put a child down to sleep if they need it whether the parent likes it or not. If a child is tired ... they need to sleep.
It was BAD yesterday, I stopped circle time halfway through because one kid got up, shoved another and then sat on him to hold him down (because he wasn't SITTING AT CIRCLE TIME) and then dcg started to cry because the song stopped and another dcg stopped whining because the song stopped and my own ds asked if he could go play in his room because his ears were hurting.... you get the point.