I have a 4 year old in care the does everything that another child in care does. When he colors a picture, he will watch what colors the other child uses and color his to look exactly the same. During meal times, he will ask the other child what they are going to eat first and then eat his food in the same order. During free play, he will only play what the other child plays even when he wants to do something else.
These are just a few examples. This has been going on for months and only happens with this one child. When the other child is not here, he is very independent.
Should I just let this go or what can I do to promote his independence around this other child?

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