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Old 01-11-2020, 03:33 PM
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Hey guys,
I have a neighbor that autistic and use to come to our center several years ago. Their house is separated by a fence and every now and then they will come into our yard when we are outside and not leave. At one time they would try to come into the house uninvited and they would try to get me to come over there to look at something. And when they would come over, they would sit REALLY close to me. Has anyone else dealt with this???
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Old 01-12-2020, 06:18 AM
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Is this an adult or child? Does this person live independently or with a caretaker?
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I have had neighbour kids wanting to come into the yard when we are outside playing. I have had to explain the rules for them regarding ratios but they really donít get it so what I do is let them know WHEN they are ALLOWED to come over.

Just because a person has ASD does not mean you cannot implement boundaries with them..if this is what you are asking
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This is exactly what I'm wondering @Ariana because they just turned 19 and still lives at home with their parents.
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I would nicely talk to the parents.Explain that licensing and or insurance does not allow unrelated adults during business hours.I would also lock gate so they can not enter.
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We don't have a gate plus they are next door neighbors with my mother
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I have a disabled adult child. Where are this child's parents/caregivers during this time?

Speak to the individual, set boundaries. Put up a sign on the fence, if needed (visuals help).

Speak to parents, express concerns.

IF neither resolves the issue, I would call adult protective services for lack of supervision. My child is NEVER out of my sight when I am responsible for his care.
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His mom and dad are home usually and he usually stays with his grandparents quite often.
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