I have a 2 yr old DCG. With me she is good as gold. Tested a lot at first of course but knows I am the boss and is a great listener and is super happy to be here. I have zero issues with her.

With mom she is a nightmare. Slaps her, runs away, won't listen etc. It is becoming a circus at pick up time. So I decided to have her dressed before mom comes to the door. The dressing circus has calmed but now she is emptying baskets in my entryway and trying to pull her clothes off. Today she even tried to bite mom when mom was taking the basket away from her. I don't need to tell you of course that mom has no backbone and kid basically hates her.

Any suggestions on what else to do? I'm not sure I feel comfortable with tossing them out the door upon arrival....although I would like to. This kid becomes like a demon when mom arrives. Is this even normal???

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