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Christina72684 02:04 PM 05-30-2013
Do you make your children wear their shoes outside while playing in the grass, sand, etc? Just curious because lately mine have been wanting to take theirs off but I didn't know if they should or not. We don't have bees or anything that I think would hurt them.
daycare 02:08 PM 05-30-2013
shoes are required at all times except for when we are only in the sandbox. I let them take them off because they fill up with sand and the kids can't stand it....
MsLaura529 02:12 PM 05-30-2013
Originally Posted by daycare:
shoes are required at all times except for when we are only in the sandbox. I let them take them off because they fill up with sand and the kids can't stand it....
Dittoshoes are required at all times except for when we are only in the sandbox. I let them take them off because they fill up with sand and the kids can't stand it....
williams2008 02:15 PM 05-30-2013
Mine have to wear shoes at all times, with the exception of being in the house.
spud912 02:17 PM 05-30-2013
Shoes on all the time. We have too many thorny plants in Arizona to be barefoot outside 
. Plus the concrete gets hot!! It drives me nuts when I go to playgrounds and half the kids are running without shoes on (and I can plainly see broken glass in the sand). My kids are always begging to take their shoes off....nope! I even have water shoes for when we go into the wading pool.
ETA: shoes are always OFF inside :-)
. Plus the concrete gets hot!! It drives me nuts when I go to playgrounds and half the kids are running without shoes on (and I can plainly see broken glass in the sand). My kids are always begging to take their shoes off....nope! I even have water shoes for when we go into the wading pool.ETA: shoes are always OFF inside :-)
sharlan 02:20 PM 05-30-2013
We rarely wear shoes in the back yard. I pretty much know what's out there.
If we're in the front yard or at a park, shoes are a must.
We rarely wear shoes in the house.
If we're in the front yard or at a park, shoes are a must.
We rarely wear shoes in the house.
Cradle2crayons 02:26 PM 05-30-2013
It depends. If they are playing in the dirt in the front yard, no. If they are in the backyard, no.
If they are walking around or nature trailing it, YEA. We have sticker plants we haven't managed to get rid of.
So I guess my answer depends in the activity.
If they are walking around or nature trailing it, YEA. We have sticker plants we haven't managed to get rid of.
So I guess my answer depends in the activity.
daycarediva 02:39 PM 05-30-2013
Always. My sand tables are elevated. Even during water play we wear water shoes. Too much liability with injury potential to allow it.
JenNJ 02:41 PM 05-30-2013
Always. You never know what is under the ground. Old nails, glass, itchy plants, etc.
SilverSabre25 03:37 PM 05-30-2013
optional. I don't make my own kids wear shoes for our backyard. Most of the dcks wear their shoes, unless in the sandbox.
But it's very optional.
But it's very optional.
Laurel 03:51 PM 05-30-2013
Originally Posted by daycarediva:
Always. My sand tables are elevated. Even during water play we wear water shoes. Too much liability with injury potential to allow it.
Always. My sand tables are elevated. Even during water play we wear water shoes. Too much liability with injury potential to allow it.
Laurel
tenderhearts 04:28 PM 05-30-2013
I also require shoes outside no exceptions, we have beautiful grass but you just never know.
EntropyControlSpecialist 04:56 PM 05-30-2013
Originally Posted by williams2008:
Mine have to wear shoes at all times, with the exception of being in the house.
Same here! Mine have to wear shoes at all times, with the exception of being in the house.
WImom 05:12 PM 05-30-2013
Always outside, I require flip flops for water play. The only time they don't wear shoes is inside.
cheerfuldom 06:37 PM 05-30-2013
My own kids do whatever they want regarding shoes but I make the daycare kids keep their shoes on all the time outside for liability reasons.
AmyKidsCo 08:58 PM 05-30-2013
On my sunscreen/insect repellent permission is a box where parents can specify whether their child can go barefoot or must wear shoes. I figure that covers liability issues.
Meyou 03:09 AM 05-31-2013
My kids all go barefoot in my backyard and at the beach but wear shoes the rest of the time.
jessrlee 04:39 AM 05-31-2013
We wear shoes outside. I finally relented and allowed flip flops this year 
EchoMom 04:48 AM 05-31-2013
No shoes needed for playing in the yard.
originalkat 05:42 AM 05-31-2013
The kids have a choice as to whether or not to wear shoes in the yard. We have really nice green grass. I think it is important the kids feel the grass on their bare feet as a kid. It connects them to the natural world. There are always liability/safety issues to consider so I think you need to assess your particular yard and decide if you think it is safe. If we leave the yard to go on a walk or to the park all kids MUST have tennis shoes--no sandals allowed.
Michelle 06:54 AM 05-31-2013
we have very thick St Augustine grass in our yard... they go barefoot in nice weather unless they are riding bikes or scooters, then they have to wear their shoes
Jewels 07:10 AM 05-31-2013
No I don't, especially once the wading pools come out, they are all pretty much barefoot anyways, and the sandbox is easier with no shoes.
mema 07:42 AM 05-31-2013
If we are off property-park, walk, etc-definitely. In the yard, it depends. If we have the sprinklers out, it's up to them. If the grass is really dry and pokey or we've had a storm and haven't gotten the sticks picked up, yes. Most wear them all the time because they can run faster.
Unregistered 07:53 AM 05-31-2013
I always make the kids wear their shoes while outside. You never know when one of them might step on something or get their foot caught in something! Then,when one of your daycare kids gets hurt outside with no shoes, who do you think is responsible for them getting hurt???
YOU are!!! and you are taking the chance of the parents getting really upset with you and they might even sue you over it! Be responsible providers! and make those kids wear their shoes outdoors!!! All you have to do is make them take them off right before you go inside, set them by the door and shake them out if sand is in them
This is a no brainier in my opinion! Use good judgement please!
YOU are!!! and you are taking the chance of the parents getting really upset with you and they might even sue you over it! Be responsible providers! and make those kids wear their shoes outdoors!!! All you have to do is make them take them off right before you go inside, set them by the door and shake them out if sand is in them
This is a no brainier in my opinion! Use good judgement please!
Blackcat31 08:13 AM 05-31-2013
Shoes are required while outside at ALL times here.
I even go a step farther and require tie shoes with NO open toes. No flip-flops, no sandals, no dress shoes and no Crocs.
When in the house ALL children must wear socks.
I do NOT allow bare feet at ANY time. Ever.
I even go a step farther and require tie shoes with NO open toes. No flip-flops, no sandals, no dress shoes and no Crocs.
When in the house ALL children must wear socks.
I do NOT allow bare feet at ANY time. Ever.
Meyou 08:26 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by Unregistered:
I always make the kids wear their shoes while outside. You never know when one of them might step on something or get their foot caught in something! Then,when one of your daycare kids gets hurt outside with no shoes, who do you think is responsible for them getting hurt???
YOU are!!! and you are taking the chance of the parents getting really upset with you and they might even sue you over it! Be responsible providers! and make those kids wear their shoes outdoors!!! All you have to do is make them take them off right before you go inside, set them by the door and shake them out if sand is in them
This is a no brainier in my opinion! Use good judgement please!
That's pretty judgmental. You're making alot of assumptions about what different parents are comfortable with and what their providers are discussing with them. I always make the kids wear their shoes while outside. You never know when one of them might step on something or get their foot caught in something! Then,when one of your daycare kids gets hurt outside with no shoes, who do you think is responsible for them getting hurt???
YOU are!!! and you are taking the chance of the parents getting really upset with you and they might even sue you over it! Be responsible providers! and make those kids wear their shoes outdoors!!! All you have to do is make them take them off right before you go inside, set them by the door and shake them out if sand is in them
This is a no brainier in my opinion! Use good judgement please!
You're also assuming all outdoor conditions are the same. My yard is soft and grassy and very barefoot friendly.
In my case I discuss all this in the interview. When we wear shoes and when we don't as well as what types of footwear are required. If parents don't want their children in bare feet my program is not the right fit for them for alot of reasons.
Unregistered 08:56 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by Meyou:
That's pretty judgmental. You're making alot of assumptions about what different parents are comfortable with and what their providers are discussing with them.
You're also assuming all outdoor conditions are the same. My yard is soft and grassy and very barefoot friendly.
In my case I discuss all this in the interview. When we wear shoes and when we don't as well as what types of footwear are required. If parents don't want their children in bare feet my program is not the right fit for them for alot of reasons.
I'm not trying to be judgmental, but for the safety of the children I would think that parents would appreciate the provider's looking out for their child. I don't care how grassy or barefoot friendly a yard is, there is always a chance that someone might hurt their foot,either by another child stepping on them,a stubbed toe,or even a bee sting that they may have stepped on a bee. If you discuss this with your parents, then they know what might happen and hopefully will not blame you anyway if their child gets their foot hurt.That's pretty judgmental. You're making alot of assumptions about what different parents are comfortable with and what their providers are discussing with them.
You're also assuming all outdoor conditions are the same. My yard is soft and grassy and very barefoot friendly.
In my case I discuss all this in the interview. When we wear shoes and when we don't as well as what types of footwear are required. If parents don't want their children in bare feet my program is not the right fit for them for alot of reasons.
My daycare is just where I won't take any chances of the children getting hurt while in my care. I may be overly cautious, but I am taking care of someone Else's child and am responsible for them while in my care.
What would you do if a child in your care DID get a foot cut or hurt in some way even tho you have a very grassy and barefoot friendly yard.....What would you tell the parents" Well, you knew this is how I take the kids outside, so don't blame me, not my fault"
Sorry, but that would not cut it with me if it was my child. I would expect my daycare provider to keep my child safe and not take any chances with anything they do.
This is just how I run my daycare.
just_peachy 09:03 AM 05-31-2013
Heaven forbid a kid get a bee sting or ::gasp:: stub a toe!
We're all for neutralizing our free radicals around here. We keep shoes on at the park or on trails. Otherwise it's at the kids' discretion.
More important, do you think I should require bubble wrap suits while the kids are in the house?
We're all for neutralizing our free radicals around here. We keep shoes on at the park or on trails. Otherwise it's at the kids' discretion.
More important, do you think I should require bubble wrap suits while the kids are in the house?
Unregistered 09:35 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by just_peachy:
Heaven forbid a kid get a bee sting or ::gasp:: stub a toe!
We're all for neutralizing our free radicals around here. We keep shoes on at the park or on trails. Otherwise it's at the kids' discretion.
More important, do you think I should require bubble wrap suits while the kids are in the house?
WOW! That is being a little strong!!!!!!Heaven forbid a kid get a bee sting or ::gasp:: stub a toe!
We're all for neutralizing our free radicals around here. We keep shoes on at the park or on trails. Otherwise it's at the kids' discretion.
More important, do you think I should require bubble wrap suits while the kids are in the house?
Not saying that a child won't experience those things, but as far as how I operate my daycare, I will do anything to keep the kids from getting hurt or any injury while here.
If it means they wear shoes outside, then that is what they will do and I know for a fact that all my parents really have appreciated how much I look out for their child and they will tell me so. NO way would I leave it up to the child to tell me if they want to wear their shoes outdoors or not.if they want to go outside, then they have to wear their shoes, no butts about it or they won't be able to go outside. I AM the boss not the children and that is what is wrong with this world of parenting today!
Too many parents let their child be the boss, they want to be " their friend " and not the parent! Sorry, don't mean to change the subject and rant.
Anyway, kids will get bee stings and stubbed toes, but not while in my care.
Jewels 09:59 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by just_peachy:
Heaven forbid a kid get a bee sting or ::gasp:: stub a toe!
We're all for neutralizing our free radicals around here. We keep shoes on at the park or on trails. Otherwise it's at the kids' discretion.
More important, do you think I should require bubble wrap suits while the kids are in the house?
I know right! my kids just this morning were crab racing in the yard...now that meant ....get ready for it....their hands were walking on the grass without protective covers. my son fell on the pavement yesterday and got some awful road ash on his elbow, today its all blistered, and looks horrible, that is far worse than anything that has ever happened to the bottom of his feet, and he was just walking on the pavement and tripped on a rock. my back yard is nice and grassy, but yes kids have stepped on a stick before, but thankfully for me, no parent has sued me for a hurt foot yet. I guess I'll take my chances, my parents are all fine with their kids taking their shoes off, they go barefoot at home as well, but most of the time unless we are swimming the kids like to have shoes on, so they can move better.Heaven forbid a kid get a bee sting or ::gasp:: stub a toe!
We're all for neutralizing our free radicals around here. We keep shoes on at the park or on trails. Otherwise it's at the kids' discretion.
More important, do you think I should require bubble wrap suits while the kids are in the house?
Jewels 10:03 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by Unregistered:
WOW! That is being a little strong!!!!!!
Not saying that a child won't experience those things, but as far as how I operate my daycare, I will do anything to keep the kids from getting hurt or any injury while here.
If it means they wear shoes outside, then that is what they will do and I know for a fact that all my parents really have appreciated how much I look out for their child and they will tell me so. NO way would I leave it up to the child to tell me if they want to wear their shoes outdoors or not.if they want to go outside, then they have to wear their shoes, no butts about it or they won't be able to go outside. I AM the boss not the children and that is what is wrong with this world of parenting today!
Too many parents let their child be the boss, they want to be " their friend " and not the parent! Sorry, don't mean to change the subject and rant.
Anyway, kids will get bee stings and stubbed toes, but not while in my care.
Really you can prevent bee stings?? and stubbed toes?? WOW! That is being a little strong!!!!!!
Not saying that a child won't experience those things, but as far as how I operate my daycare, I will do anything to keep the kids from getting hurt or any injury while here.
If it means they wear shoes outside, then that is what they will do and I know for a fact that all my parents really have appreciated how much I look out for their child and they will tell me so. NO way would I leave it up to the child to tell me if they want to wear their shoes outdoors or not.if they want to go outside, then they have to wear their shoes, no butts about it or they won't be able to go outside. I AM the boss not the children and that is what is wrong with this world of parenting today!
Too many parents let their child be the boss, they want to be " their friend " and not the parent! Sorry, don't mean to change the subject and rant.
Anyway, kids will get bee stings and stubbed toes, but not while in my care.
Letting a kid go barefoot outside is NOT letting them be the boss, my kids all know its allowed at certain times (not today because its was very wet and muddy, so they needed their rain boots)
My own daughter is allowed to pick her own clothes out, does that make her the boss of the house, no it makes her Independent and able to make some choices for herself. You can not guarantee a kid never gets hurt. But I'd really like to know how you control the bees.
Unregistered 10:24 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by Jewels:
Really you can prevent bee stings?? and stubbed toes??
Letting a kid go barefoot outside is NOT letting them be the boss, my kids all know its allowed at certain times (not today because its was very wet and muddy, so they needed their rain boots)
My own daughter is allowed to pick her own clothes out, does that make her the boss of the house, no it makes her Independent and able to make some choices for herself. You can not guarantee a kid never gets hurt. But I'd really like to know how you control the bees.
REALLY! All I was trying to say is that I make my daycare kids wear shoes outside for safety reasons. They know that THEY will not be able to play outside unless they have shoes on. The parents know that too! I am just trying to be a responsible, caring daycare provider and this is just one of the things that I believe in doing. Everyone else can do as they please with their daycare,not my concern or business!Really you can prevent bee stings?? and stubbed toes??
Letting a kid go barefoot outside is NOT letting them be the boss, my kids all know its allowed at certain times (not today because its was very wet and muddy, so they needed their rain boots)
My own daughter is allowed to pick her own clothes out, does that make her the boss of the house, no it makes her Independent and able to make some choices for herself. You can not guarantee a kid never gets hurt. But I'd really like to know how you control the bees.
Blackcat31 10:29 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by Jewels:
Really you can prevent bee stings?? and stubbed toes??
Letting a kid go barefoot outside is NOT letting them be the boss, my kids all know its allowed at certain times (not today because its was very wet and muddy, so they needed their rain boots)
My own daughter is allowed to pick her own clothes out, does that make her the boss of the house, no it makes her Independent and able to make some choices for herself. You can not guarantee a kid never gets hurt. But I'd really like to know how you control the bees.
No, you can't guarantee that that a kid never gets hurt and you certainly can't control bees but what I CAN control is the probability of any of that happening while on MY watch. Really you can prevent bee stings?? and stubbed toes??
Letting a kid go barefoot outside is NOT letting them be the boss, my kids all know its allowed at certain times (not today because its was very wet and muddy, so they needed their rain boots)
My own daughter is allowed to pick her own clothes out, does that make her the boss of the house, no it makes her Independent and able to make some choices for herself. You can not guarantee a kid never gets hurt. But I'd really like to know how you control the bees.
I can eliminate the possibility of a cut foot or a stubbed toe by requiring all kids to wear proper shoes while outside.
I do NOT want to assume any more liability that I already do and in this world protecting yourself from unnecessary and frivolous lawsuits sometimes means having rules that are more for MY personal and financial safety than it is for the child's physical safety.
You may have been lucky enough to not ever have been sued by a parent before but IF you should ever encounter that, you'd be glad you went above and beyond to protect the child.
Prevention is worth more to me than finding a solution.
As any provider in this business knows ANY "golden" or "perfect" parent can change their colors in a nano second when they feel they have been wronged or have the opportunity.
Unregistered 10:46 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
No, you can't guarantee that that a kid never gets hurt and you certainly can't control bees but what I CAN control is the probability of any of that happening while on MY watch.
I can eliminate the possibility of a cut foot or a stubbed toe by requiring all kids to wear proper shoes while outside.
I do NOT want to assume any more liability that I already do and in this world protecting yourself from unnecessary and frivolous lawsuits sometimes means having rules that are more for MY personal and financial safety than it is for the child's physical safety.
You may have been lucky enough to not ever have been sued by a parent before but IF you should ever encounter that, you'd be glad you went above and beyond to protect the child.
Prevention is worth more to me than finding a solution.
As any provider in this business knows ANY "golden" or "perfect" parent can change their colors in a nano second when they feel they have been wronged or have the opportunity.
No, you can't guarantee that that a kid never gets hurt and you certainly can't control bees but what I CAN control is the probability of any of that happening while on MY watch.
I can eliminate the possibility of a cut foot or a stubbed toe by requiring all kids to wear proper shoes while outside.
I do NOT want to assume any more liability that I already do and in this world protecting yourself from unnecessary and frivolous lawsuits sometimes means having rules that are more for MY personal and financial safety than it is for the child's physical safety.
You may have been lucky enough to not ever have been sued by a parent before but IF you should ever encounter that, you'd be glad you went above and beyond to protect the child.
Prevention is worth more to me than finding a solution.
As any provider in this business knows ANY "golden" or "perfect" parent can change their colors in a nano second when they feel they have been wronged or have the opportunity.
THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!!! I'm the unregistered one who wrote about being sued and not letting the kids outside with no shoes.
This is exactly what I was trying to say. I'm so glad that someone else feels the same way I do and wants to protect the kids and themselves. Yes, parents can turn on you in a nano second if they want to and that has happened, not to me but to another daycare provider I know. Why take any chances with the kiddo's and the parents. It seems like a simple rule to have.Thank you again for your support.
Jewels 10:52 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
No, you can't guarantee that that a kid never gets hurt and you certainly can't control bees but what I CAN control is the probability of any of that happening while on MY watch.
I can eliminate the possibility of a cut foot or a stubbed toe by requiring all kids to wear proper shoes while outside.
I do NOT want to assume any more liability that I already do and in this world protecting yourself from unnecessary and frivolous lawsuits sometimes means having rules that are more for MY personal and financial safety than it is for the child's physical safety.
You may have been lucky enough to not ever have been sued by a parent before but IF you should ever encounter that, you'd be glad you went above and beyond to protect the child.
Prevention is worth more to me than finding a solution.
As any provider in this business knows ANY "golden" or "perfect" parent can change their colors in a nano second when they feel they have been wronged or have the opportunity.
I'm not arguing you here blackcat, the unregistered user came across harsh in her first statement saying pretty much that those of us that allow no shoes, are using bad judgment and be irresponsible, I'm not arguing that everyone should let kids go barefoot, but I am not irresponsible for doing so myself.No, you can't guarantee that that a kid never gets hurt and you certainly can't control bees but what I CAN control is the probability of any of that happening while on MY watch.
I can eliminate the possibility of a cut foot or a stubbed toe by requiring all kids to wear proper shoes while outside.
I do NOT want to assume any more liability that I already do and in this world protecting yourself from unnecessary and frivolous lawsuits sometimes means having rules that are more for MY personal and financial safety than it is for the child's physical safety.
You may have been lucky enough to not ever have been sued by a parent before but IF you should ever encounter that, you'd be glad you went above and beyond to protect the child.
Prevention is worth more to me than finding a solution.
As any provider in this business knows ANY "golden" or "perfect" parent can change their colors in a nano second when they feel they have been wronged or have the opportunity.
And she herself wrote "kids will get bee stings and stubbed toes, but NOT while in my care."
My kids must wear shoes on walks and on concrete, but my yard is beautiful and I allow barefeet if they want, but most kids prefer having shoes on except in the sand. her statement felt judgemental against us that allow barefeet, lots of exclamations.
one of my neighbors requires shoes at all times at their daycare, but they also plays in the front yard right by the street. I support your rules for shoes at all times, I just don't want to be judged for allowing bare feet.
Unregistered 11:10 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by Jewels:
I'm not arguing you here blackcat, the unregistered user came across harsh in her first statement saying pretty much that those of us that allow no shoes, are using bad judgment and be irresponsible, I'm not arguing that everyone should let kids go barefoot, but I am not irresponsible for doing so myself.
And she herself wrote "kids will get bee stings and stubbed toes, but NOT while in my care."
My kids must wear shoes on walks and on concrete, but my yard is beautiful and I allow barefeet if they want, but most kids prefer having shoes on except in the sand. her statement felt judgemental against us that allow barefeet, lots of exclamations.
one of my neighbors requires shoes at all times at their daycare, but they also plays in the front yard right by the street. I support your rules for shoes at all times, I just don't want to be judged for allowing bare feet.
I'm not arguing you here blackcat, the unregistered user came across harsh in her first statement saying pretty much that those of us that allow no shoes, are using bad judgment and be irresponsible, I'm not arguing that everyone should let kids go barefoot, but I am not irresponsible for doing so myself.
And she herself wrote "kids will get bee stings and stubbed toes, but NOT while in my care."
My kids must wear shoes on walks and on concrete, but my yard is beautiful and I allow barefeet if they want, but most kids prefer having shoes on except in the sand. her statement felt judgemental against us that allow barefeet, lots of exclamations.
one of my neighbors requires shoes at all times at their daycare, but they also plays in the front yard right by the street. I support your rules for shoes at all times, I just don't want to be judged for allowing bare feet.
I'm unregistered again.
Not judging you on letting the kids go barefoot, but I think it is just being a little careful on having them wear shoes outside. Also my daycare parents would have a hissy fit if I let their child play in my front yard right by the street and I live on a very safe street with hardly any traffic. I guess I run my daycare different then a lot of you as I have done daycare for 30 years now and HAVE never had one child get hurt, I think that might say something about how I run my daycare. Enough said.
This has gotten way out of proportion on this subject when all I was trying to convey is that it is a good idea to make the kids wear shoes to prevent any injuries while in your care. Does that make any sense.
Blackcat31 11:21 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by Jewels:
I'm not arguing you here blackcat, the unregistered user came across harsh in her first statement saying pretty much that those of us that allow no shoes, are using bad judgment and be irresponsible, I'm not arguing that everyone should let kids go barefoot, but I am not irresponsible for doing so myself.
And she herself wrote "kids will get bee stings and stubbed toes, but NOT while in my care."
My kids must wear shoes on walks and on concrete, but my yard is beautiful and I allow barefeet if they want, but most kids prefer having shoes on except in the sand. her statement felt judgemental against us that allow barefeet, lots of exclamations.
one of my neighbors requires shoes at all times at their daycare, but they also plays in the front yard right by the street. I support your rules for shoes at all times, I just don't want to be judged for allowing bare feet.
I'm not arguing you here blackcat, the unregistered user came across harsh in her first statement saying pretty much that those of us that allow no shoes, are using bad judgment and be irresponsible, I'm not arguing that everyone should let kids go barefoot, but I am not irresponsible for doing so myself.
And she herself wrote "kids will get bee stings and stubbed toes, but NOT while in my care."
My kids must wear shoes on walks and on concrete, but my yard is beautiful and I allow barefeet if they want, but most kids prefer having shoes on except in the sand. her statement felt judgemental against us that allow barefeet, lots of exclamations.
one of my neighbors requires shoes at all times at their daycare, but they also plays in the front yard right by the street. I support your rules for shoes at all times, I just don't want to be judged for allowing bare feet.
I wasn't arguing with you either... I was just one of the only other posters that made the kids wear shoes and am kind of fanatical about it too so I just wanted to lend my perspective on why. No worries...
You are right though, no one should judge another for how they do things. It's all in what works for you.
Luna 11:28 AM 05-31-2013
It's not what you're saying, but the way you're saying it. It sounds like you believe anyone who doesn't do things the way you do is irresponsible and careless.
Do you tell parents they shouldn't let their children go barefoot at home? Or do you let them do things their own way? FTR, we always wear shoes outside. My house, my rules. You do whatever you want at your house.
ETA directed to the original poster.
Do you tell parents they shouldn't let their children go barefoot at home? Or do you let them do things their own way? FTR, we always wear shoes outside. My house, my rules. You do whatever you want at your house.
ETA directed to the original poster.
Michelle 11:39 AM 05-31-2013
Just wondering what the providers do when it's time to run in the sprinklers or have water games,water table, sponge and bucket play etc.
If they wear their shoes for these activities ? If they get them soaked, do you have several back up shoes for this?
Also, do you require long pants, long sleeves, hats and gloves to protect their skin from scrapes and bees?
My kids have ran around in bathing suits, sandals, shorts/tops and sundresses all Summer!
They go back to school with golden tans and wonderful memories but after reading this I am getting concerned that maybe I should have them in some sort of shoes just in case
If they wear their shoes for these activities ? If they get them soaked, do you have several back up shoes for this?
Also, do you require long pants, long sleeves, hats and gloves to protect their skin from scrapes and bees?
My kids have ran around in bathing suits, sandals, shorts/tops and sundresses all Summer!
They go back to school with golden tans and wonderful memories but after reading this I am getting concerned that maybe I should have them in some sort of shoes just in case
Blackcat31 11:45 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by Michelle:
Just wondering what the providers do when it's time to run in the sprinklers or have water games,water table, sponge and bucket play etc.
If they wear their shoes for these activities ? If they get them soaked, do you have several back up shoes for this?
My DCK's all have water shoes. They cost less than $6 per pair. Like this:Just wondering what the providers do when it's time to run in the sprinklers or have water games,water table, sponge and bucket play etc.
If they wear their shoes for these activities ? If they get them soaked, do you have several back up shoes for this?
Originally Posted by Michelle:
Also, do you require long pants, long sleeves, hats and gloves to protect their skin from scrapes and bees?
I don't require long pants, long sleeves or gloves to protect them from scrapes. We also don't have any bushes, trees or shrubs in our playground area. The toys are all plastic Little Tike type stuff so the possibility of a scrape is minimal. Also, do you require long pants, long sleeves, hats and gloves to protect their skin from scrapes and bees?
I also spray my yard for bugs so the chance of a bee sting is minimal as well. Or atleast it must be as I have never had a child get a bee sting in over two decades of doing this.
I myself, have NEVER been stung by a bee.
I DO require the kids to have hats though.
Michelle 11:49 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
My DCK's all have water shoes. They cost less than $6 per pair. Like this:
I don't require long pants, long sleeves or gloves to protect them from scrapes. We also don't have any bushes, trees or shrubs in our playground area. The toys are all plastic Little Tike type stuff so the possibility of a scrape is minimal.
I also spray my yard for bugs so the chance of a bee sting is minimal as well. Or atleast it must be as I have never had a child get a bee sting in over two decades of doing this.
I myself, have NEVER been stung by a bee.
I DO require the kids to have hats though.
Is it hard for them to do slip n slides with those water shoes? My DCK's all have water shoes. They cost less than $6 per pair. Like this:
I don't require long pants, long sleeves or gloves to protect them from scrapes. We also don't have any bushes, trees or shrubs in our playground area. The toys are all plastic Little Tike type stuff so the possibility of a scrape is minimal.
I also spray my yard for bugs so the chance of a bee sting is minimal as well. Or atleast it must be as I have never had a child get a bee sting in over two decades of doing this.
I myself, have NEVER been stung by a bee.
I DO require the kids to have hats though.
Also, what kind of bug spray do you use?
Blackcat31 11:56 AM 05-31-2013
Originally Posted by Michelle:
Is it hard for them to do slip n slides with those water shoes?
Also, what kind of bug spray do you use?
Actually the worst thing about the slip and slide is when kids get ready to run down it and slide, they usually hit the plastic and then their feet slip right out from under them (....anyone who has used a slip and slide knows what I mean) so the water shoes actually help that activity go a lot smoother. Plus the kids slide on their bodies (tummy or backs) not their feet. Is it hard for them to do slip n slides with those water shoes?
Also, what kind of bug spray do you use?
I use whatever kind of bug spray the parent brings me for their child but as far as spraying the yard goes we use a yard fogger type spray like this:
spud912 02:35 PM 05-31-2013
These are the lovely thorns all over the place outside:
We had a couple of days of below freezing temperatures this year (I know, Arizona actually does go below 32 degrees...sometimes a couple times!!) and all the bougainvilleas froze. Since the branches were all dead, they fell off as the temperatures increased and it's left thorns everywhere. Even if someone doesn't have bougainvilleas in their yard, the thorns blow in from neighboring yards. I can't tell you how many of these thorns I've pulled out of shoes this year 
! Can you imagine stepping on one with a barefoot ?!
We had a couple of days of below freezing temperatures this year (I know, Arizona actually does go below 32 degrees...sometimes a couple times
!!) and all the bougainvilleas froze. Since the branches were all dead, they fell off as the temperatures increased and it's left thorns everywhere. Even if someone doesn't have bougainvilleas in their yard, the thorns blow in from neighboring yards. I can't tell you how many of these thorns I've pulled out of shoes this year ! Can you imagine stepping on one with a barefoot ?!
Luna 03:25 PM 05-31-2013
Owie! I didn't know bougainvillea had thorns 
My dcks wear shoes during water play and I do have spare shoes and clothes for everyone. Hats are a must, and they don't really get tan because they are repeatedly covered in sunscreen provided by their parents and we have lots of shade to play in. Parents provide insect repellent.
Some neighbour kids broke a bulb in our motion light with a basketball last weekend and the glass shattered...some in the grass. I wouldn't be at all comfortable with anyone being barefoot out there.
My dcks wear shoes during water play and I do have spare shoes and clothes for everyone. Hats are a must, and they don't really get tan because they are repeatedly covered in sunscreen provided by their parents and we have lots of shade to play in. Parents provide insect repellent. Some neighbour kids broke a bulb in our motion light with a basketball last weekend and the glass shattered...some in the grass. I wouldn't be at all comfortable with anyone being barefoot out there.
Scout 05:14 PM 05-31-2013
I'm with Blackcat. Unless we are in the little kiddie pool they must wear shoes in my yard! I don't want to chance them stepping on a bee, or sharp stick, or even a roofing nail. I still find these and our roof was done in 2007! I also do not like open toe sandles for dck's but, ds wears flip flops(not to run around in). Stubbed toes aren't the end of the world but, they do hurt. I can minimize the chances of these foot injuries by making them wear shoes. Mostly when we are outside they have water shoes on here as well that I just happen to have from my kids. I need 2 more pairs for the girls and I'm set!
I also do not like open toe sandles for dck's but, ds wears flip flops(not to run around in). Stubbed toes aren't the end of the world but, they do hurt. I can minimize the chances of these foot injuries by making them wear shoes. Mostly when we are outside they have water shoes on here as well that I just happen to have from my kids. I need 2 more pairs for the girls and I'm set!
Nebula 05:52 PM 05-31-2013
The home preschool I work in, shoes outside at all times (Texas... fire ants, snakes, spiders, any number of things plus hot hot sand & concrete)
Socks or barefoot or shoes are OK inside.
Socks or barefoot or shoes are OK inside.
jenn 06:37 AM 06-03-2013
My kids wear shoes at all times. Inside, outside, naptime,...all the time. I request that the parents bring a water safe pair to leave here (flip flops, crocs, water shoes, whatever) for when we play in the water.
daycarediva 08:12 AM 06-03-2013
Originally Posted by Michelle:
Just wondering what the providers do when it's time to run in the sprinklers or have water games,water table, sponge and bucket play etc.
If they wear their shoes for these activities ? If they get them soaked, do you have several back up shoes for this?
Also, do you require long pants, long sleeves, hats and gloves to protect their skin from scrapes and bees?
My kids have ran around in bathing suits, sandals, shorts/tops and sundresses all Summer!
They go back to school with golden tans and wonderful memories but after reading this I am getting concerned that maybe I should have them in some sort of shoes just in case
Water shoes are for water play (water parks have rules about this kind of footwear as well). Just wondering what the providers do when it's time to run in the sprinklers or have water games,water table, sponge and bucket play etc.
If they wear their shoes for these activities ? If they get them soaked, do you have several back up shoes for this?
Also, do you require long pants, long sleeves, hats and gloves to protect their skin from scrapes and bees?
My kids have ran around in bathing suits, sandals, shorts/tops and sundresses all Summer!
They go back to school with golden tans and wonderful memories but after reading this I am getting concerned that maybe I should have them in some sort of shoes just in case
I don't allow slip & slides (liability with rocks, bumping into each other, etc)
My kids are required to wear SPF wear for outside as well.
daycarediva 08:16 AM 06-03-2013
this is the bug spray I use for the kids and the house/yard.
nanglgrl 10:45 AM 06-03-2013
I don't require shoes either. When we go outside they usually have shoes on but between the sandbox, water activities and just playing most of them loose their shoes before we go inside. We do wear shoes at all times when we leave my yard.
No thorny plants here just grass.
I'm always barefoot outside and I did actually step on a bee as a child and once I stepped on a nail in our barn so these things do happen. Lots of things can happen. Yes, you can minimize the risk by requiring shoes but it's all personal choice.
My clients wouldn't be upset by a bee sting or a stubbed toe or even a little owie on the bottom of their child's foot...anymore than they would be upset by finding a tick, a scraped knee or mosquito bite. Of course these experiences aren't pleasant for children but they are short lived and to me they are just part of childhood like running barefoot and squishing your toes in mud.
However, I would not let them run barefoot if I had prickly plants, glass or nails in my yard.
No thorny plants here just grass.
I'm always barefoot outside and I did actually step on a bee as a child and once I stepped on a nail in our barn so these things do happen. Lots of things can happen. Yes, you can minimize the risk by requiring shoes but it's all personal choice.
My clients wouldn't be upset by a bee sting or a stubbed toe or even a little owie on the bottom of their child's foot...anymore than they would be upset by finding a tick, a scraped knee or mosquito bite. Of course these experiences aren't pleasant for children but they are short lived and to me they are just part of childhood like running barefoot and squishing your toes in mud.
However, I would not let them run barefoot if I had prickly plants, glass or nails in my yard.
nanglgrl 10:47 AM 06-03-2013
Originally Posted by daycarediva:
this is the bug spray I use for the kids and the house/yard.
For those of you who use the bug spray do you have a major problem with bugs?this is the bug spray I use for the kids and the house/yard.
I've never treated my yard. We have plenty insects and do sometimes get a mosquito bite or have to dodge a bee but nothing too bad.
Jewels 11:02 AM 06-03-2013
Originally Posted by nanglgrl:
For those of you who use the bug spray do you have a major problem with bugs?
I've never treated my yard. We have plenty insects and do sometimes get a mosquito bite or have to dodge a bee but nothing too bad.
I do, but we have a few wetlands right around my house, and a giant pond in the back yard, so we have major breeding grounds for mosquitos...I actually had my very first kid get stung by a wasp the other week, but the kicker was, it was inside the house.For those of you who use the bug spray do you have a major problem with bugs?
I've never treated my yard. We have plenty insects and do sometimes get a mosquito bite or have to dodge a bee but nothing too bad.
daycarediva 11:22 AM 06-03-2013
The previous owners had a LARGE above ground pool, and they dug down and about 1/3 my yard is sand. We slowly overfilled it with topsoil (5 years later, still some areas where grass won't/can't grow) so we get sand fleas. We treat the yard about once/month.
Blackcat31 11:47 AM 06-03-2013
Originally Posted by nanglgrl:
For those of you who use the bug spray do you have a major problem with bugs?
I've never treated my yard. We have plenty insects and do sometimes get a mosquito bite or have to dodge a bee but nothing too bad.
LOL! The "unofficial" state bird for us is the mosquito so yeah, you could say we have issues with bugs. For those of you who use the bug spray do you have a major problem with bugs?
I've never treated my yard. We have plenty insects and do sometimes get a mosquito bite or have to dodge a bee but nothing too bad.
Despite being diligent with bug repellant, most the kids in this state look like they have chicken pox for a majority of the summer.
Meyou 11:55 AM 06-03-2013
I wonder if some of this is a regional thing. Bare feet here in the summer is the norm, not the exception. My kids don't wear shoes from June until October unless they are going into a building somewhere. They rarely even wear them when we walk to the beach each day which is several blocks away.
I've never had a DCP question my barefoot backyard play and most have the reaction, "Well of course they wouldn't have shoes on in the yard!" rather than something negative.
We don't have thorns, prickles, bad bugs, mean ants or anything else "dangerous" that alot of you had listed.
Just thinking out loud....
I've never had a DCP question my barefoot backyard play and most have the reaction, "Well of course they wouldn't have shoes on in the yard!" rather than something negative.
We don't have thorns, prickles, bad bugs, mean ants or anything else "dangerous" that alot of you had listed.
Just thinking out loud....
Michelle 12:48 PM 06-03-2013
My day care parents would think I was crazy if I didn't let the kids run around on our grass..
We have St Augustine grass and it is very thick.. it's like walking on a mattress.
Anybody familiar with this grass knows what I am talking about.
We have St Augustine grass and it is very thick.. it's like walking on a mattress.
Anybody familiar with this grass knows what I am talking about.
spud912 02:22 PM 06-03-2013
Aww I'm jealous of your grass! Ours gets pretty sparse and dry .
As far as bugs, we don't have too many. I'm sure other people from Arizona will say we have good amount, but I lived in Georgia and know better. The yard does get some ants and the normal bugs. In the spring, our trees bloom and they will fill with bees. Since Africanized bees are such a problem here I just make sure we stay far away from the blooming trees until the bees lose interest and the petals start falling. Luckfully, I haven't seen any scorpions around our house, but they are a huge problem in Arizona. They tend to follow trails and I'm pretty sure we don't live on one as we probably would have seen one by now. We have a ton of lizards and birds in the backyard, though, and I think that really keeps our bug population under control. I 
the lizards!
. As far as bugs, we don't have too many. I'm sure other people from Arizona will say we have good amount, but I lived in Georgia and know better
. The yard does get some ants and the normal bugs. In the spring, our trees bloom and they will fill with bees. Since Africanized bees are such a problem here I just make sure we stay far away from the blooming trees until the bees lose interest and the petals start falling. Luckfully, I haven't seen any scorpions around our house, but they are a huge problem in Arizona. They tend to follow trails and I'm pretty sure we don't live on one as we probably would have seen one by now. We have a ton of lizards and birds in the backyard, though, and I think that really keeps our bug population under control. I the lizards!
Michelle 02:56 PM 06-03-2013
Spud
We thought our grass was the coolest thickest thing ever until we went on a walk and saw this guy who's St Augustine was sooo thick that my husband got instantly jealous and went out and got some grass food and started obsessing over it... I asked him.."what's your goal? to require us to have a ladder to get up on the lawn?" he said "yep"
We don't have many bees,stickers,thorns or anything like that..thank goodness!
Scorpions would freak me out and we would never see a lizard around here (alive) because our cat would get him first
We thought our grass was the coolest thickest thing ever until we went on a walk and saw this guy who's St Augustine was sooo thick that my husband got instantly jealous and went out and got some grass food and started obsessing over it... I asked him.."what's your goal? to require us to have a ladder to get up on the lawn?" he said "yep"
We don't have many bees,stickers,thorns or anything like that..thank goodness!
Scorpions would freak me out and we would never see a lizard around here (alive) because our cat would get him first