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NightOwl 05:39 AM 06-19-2015
I'm MORTIFIED. 
My cat is a b***h most days and mostly stays to herself, sleeping in inaccessable places, but she's had an even worse attitude lately because we dont let her outside anymore. She was bringing us "gifts" to the front porch like birds and baby bunnies.
Anyway, dcb was trying to pet her (which he knows not to do, but kids like to push the envelope when mom is here) and she bit him. No blood, just 4 little scratches where her teeth scraped the skin.
Dcm didnt seem bothered, I think she said something like "you know you shouldn't be touching Nessa, this is what happens when you do". Which isn't entirely true, she's never bit any dcks, but I teach them to leave her alone to avoid exactly this. Even if dcm truly isnt bothered by it, I am! I was so embarrassed and angry at the same time.
I'm not getting rid of my cat, that's not an option. She 7 years old and I love her guts. She doesn't behave that ^^^ way with me. I suppose it's time to consider a quarantine for her while my dcks are here. Unless anyone has any other ideas? Or stories of animals behaving badly to make me feel better?
My cat is a b***h most days and mostly stays to herself, sleeping in inaccessable places, but she's had an even worse attitude lately because we dont let her outside anymore. She was bringing us "gifts" to the front porch like birds and baby bunnies. Anyway, dcb was trying to pet her (which he knows not to do, but kids like to push the envelope when mom is here) and she bit him. No blood, just 4 little scratches where her teeth scraped the skin.
Dcm didnt seem bothered, I think she said something like "you know you shouldn't be touching Nessa, this is what happens when you do". Which isn't entirely true, she's never bit any dcks, but I teach them to leave her alone to avoid exactly this. Even if dcm truly isnt bothered by it, I am! I was so embarrassed and angry at the same time.
I'm not getting rid of my cat, that's not an option. She 7 years old and I love her guts. She doesn't behave that ^^^ way with me. I suppose it's time to consider a quarantine for her while my dcks are here. Unless anyone has any other ideas? Or stories of animals behaving badly to make me feel better?
Mom o Col 05:57 AM 06-19-2015
My cat is an attention hog...to a point. She loves to come around and the kids will pet her and chase her and she enjoys it. BUT if she is sleeping and they bother her she will usually run away and sleep somewhere else. The other day she must not have wanted to move and when one of them wouldn't leave her alone after I asked her to she reached out a paw as if to warn the child and ended up scratching her a tiny little dot on the face. It was literally pin prick size. Mom was unfazed as I expected she would be because she's like that. But it was a reminder to me that animals are animals. Don't be too upset at kitty. These sorts of things happen.
Blackcat31 06:01 AM 06-19-2015
Originally Posted by NessaRose:
I'm MORTIFIED. My cat is a b***h most days and mostly stays to herself, sleeping in inaccessable places, but she's had an even worse attitude lately because we dont let her outside anymore. She was bringing us "gifts" to the front porch like birds and baby bunnies.
Anyway, dcb was trying to pet her (which he knows not to do, but kids like to push the envelope when mom is here) and she bit him. No blood, just 4 little scratches where her teeth scraped the skin.
Dcm didnt seem bothered, I think she said something like "you know you shouldn't be touching Nessa, this is what happens when you do". Which isn't entirely true, she's never bit any dcks, but I teach them to leave her alone to avoid exactly this. Even if dcm truly isnt bothered by it, I am! I was so embarrassed and angry at the same time.
I'm not getting rid of my cat, that's not an option. She 7 years old and I love her guts. She doesn't behave that ^^^ way with me. I suppose it's time to consider a quarantine for her while my dcks are here. Unless anyone has any other ideas? Or stories of animals behaving badly to make me feel better?
Sounds to me like it has nothing to do with the cat but more to do with DCB not listening. I'm MORTIFIED.
My cat is a b***h most days and mostly stays to herself, sleeping in inaccessable places, but she's had an even worse attitude lately because we dont let her outside anymore. She was bringing us "gifts" to the front porch like birds and baby bunnies. Anyway, dcb was trying to pet her (which he knows not to do, but kids like to push the envelope when mom is here) and she bit him. No blood, just 4 little scratches where her teeth scraped the skin.
Dcm didnt seem bothered, I think she said something like "you know you shouldn't be touching Nessa, this is what happens when you do". Which isn't entirely true, she's never bit any dcks, but I teach them to leave her alone to avoid exactly this. Even if dcm truly isnt bothered by it, I am! I was so embarrassed and angry at the same time.
I'm not getting rid of my cat, that's not an option. She 7 years old and I love her guts. She doesn't behave that ^^^ way with me. I suppose it's time to consider a quarantine for her while my dcks are here. Unless anyone has any other ideas? Or stories of animals behaving badly to make me feel better?
It would be no different to me than a child climbing on something and falling after you've told them not to climb on something. You told them not to bother cat (even mom is aware that this is a rule) and yet DCB still touched the cat.
I think the cat acted exactly how a cat should act and if she is current on her vaccinations, didn't break the skin and has no other issues, I'd just let it be water under the bridge and call it a natural consequence.
Cats tend to stay away from people when they aren't feeling social so if DCB went looking for trouble, he found it.
Cat's healthy, up to date
No broken skin
No upset parent
Let it go. Use it as a learning experience... "Told ya Daycare Boy"
And don't give it a second thought.
kathiemarie 07:55 AM 06-19-2015
I wouldn't worry either. I have a cat that likes to be out with everyone but doesn't like to be petted. He will get up and move if he is bothered BUT he has swiped and scratch kids before. I tell the kids that Charlie cant talk and his way of letting you know you are bugging him is to walk away. If you chase after him you might get scratch so you need to "listen" to what he is telling you. Then I let them learn...
NightOwl 09:03 AM 06-19-2015
She's up to date on vaccines and healthy, unless you count how fat she is. I guess I just panicked a little because it happened right in front of dcm.
I guess I just panicked a little because it happened right in front of dcm.
Stephnrich 09:45 AM 06-19-2015
I wouldn't worry. Also, if you figure out how to Quarintine a cat, let me know lol! We have 4 cats. Two are declawed and super chill, 1 is old and stays in my son's room or outside, but 1 will scratch if the kids pick on him. He's a little grumpy, but still wants to be around the kids. They're taught to touch gently or leave him alone. A handful of times, littles have yanked his tail or touched his butt (which he hates), and he has scratched. I write up a booboo report with apologies, but no one has ever been mad. It happens. Imo, being around animals does more good for kids than bad.
NightOwl 09:55 AM 06-19-2015
Originally Posted by Stephnrich:
I wouldn't worry. Also, if you figure out how to Quarintine a cat, let me know lol! We have 4 cats. Two are declawed and super chill, 1 is old and stays in my son's room or outside, but 1 will scratch if the kids pick on him. He's a little grumpy, but still wants to be around the kids. They're taught to touch gently or leave him alone. A handful of times, littles have yanked his tail or touched his butt (which he hates), and he has scratched. I write up a booboo report with apologies, but no one has ever been mad. It happens. Imo, being around animals does more good for kids than bad.
Amen! I can't imagine my house without animals. And I'm very clear from the beginning that I have these pets and they will be accessible to the children. I tell everyone my cat has an attitude problem and most people say, is there a cat who doesn't? I wouldn't worry. Also, if you figure out how to Quarintine a cat, let me know lol! We have 4 cats. Two are declawed and super chill, 1 is old and stays in my son's room or outside, but 1 will scratch if the kids pick on him. He's a little grumpy, but still wants to be around the kids. They're taught to touch gently or leave him alone. A handful of times, littles have yanked his tail or touched his butt (which he hates), and he has scratched. I write up a booboo report with apologies, but no one has ever been mad. It happens. Imo, being around animals does more good for kids than bad.
When I say quarantine, I mean wait until she wanders into a bedroom and close the door like a ninja.
childcaremom 11:06 AM 06-19-2015
We have a senior kitty with a cranky attitude that gets locked up during the day. He is allowed out to roam only when we are outside. The cats are banned from the playroom and (thankfully) haven't figured out that they can jump over the gates. They aren't the brightest but we do love them
Stephnrich 11:14 AM 06-19-2015
Originally Posted by :
When I say quarantine, I mean wait until she wanders into a bedroom and close the door like a ninja.
This cracked me up!When I say quarantine, I mean wait until she wanders into a bedroom and close the door like a ninja.
NightOwl 01:34 PM 06-19-2015
Originally Posted by Stephnrich:
This cracked me up!
This cracked me up!
I'm dead serious! After all, this is HER house. She just let's us live here. .
MarinaVanessa 02:29 PM 06-19-2015
I agree that I wouldn't worry too much.
A little off topic but you mentioned that your kitty was bringing you gifts. That's actually a good sign as far as I know which means that your cat loves you so much she's out being a hunter and bringing you offerings. I think I read somewhere that it means that your cat knows you're in charge and she's "earning her keep" so to speak. Gross, but sweet
A little off topic but you mentioned that your kitty was bringing you gifts. That's actually a good sign as far as I know which means that your cat loves you so much she's out being a hunter and bringing you offerings. I think I read somewhere that it means that your cat knows you're in charge and she's "earning her keep" so to speak. Gross, but sweet
NightOwl 04:00 PM 06-19-2015
Originally Posted by MarinaVanessa:
I agree that I wouldn't worry too much. <br />
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A little off topic but you mentioned that your kitty was bringing you gifts. That's actually a good sign as far as I know which means that your cat loves you so much she's out being a hunter and bringing you offerings. I think I read somewhere that it means that your cat knows you're in charge and she's "earning her keep" so to speak. Gross, but sweet <img src="images/smilies/.gif" border="0" alt="" title="" smilieid="21" class="inlineimg" /><img src="images/smilies/laugh.gif" border="0" alt="" title="Laughing" smilieid="13" class="inlineimg" />
<br />I agree that I wouldn't worry too much. <br />
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A little off topic but you mentioned that your kitty was bringing you gifts. That's actually a good sign as far as I know which means that your cat loves you so much she's out being a hunter and bringing you offerings. I think I read somewhere that it means that your cat knows you're in charge and she's "earning her keep" so to speak. Gross, but sweet <img src="images/smilies/
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Yes, I know. They say she actually expects us to [gag] eat it. Like she's feeding us. I know it comes from a good place, maybe she does it to make up for her attitude problem, like an apology.
A very bloody apology. EWW.
Laurel 05:36 PM 06-19-2015
Our licensing regulations do not allow pets around dck's. Also parents must be notified that there are pets in the home. We have to put it in writing and they sign it. If a pet injures a child here it is on the provider as the pet is not allowed to be around the children per our regulations.
Laurel
Laurel
jenboo 06:54 PM 06-19-2015
Replace the cat with a dog. Problem solved. 
NightOwl 03:45 AM 06-20-2015
We have a dog too. And a guinea pig. And a crested gecko. The kids have access to all of them, with supervision of course. My cat is the only one that ever poses a problem. Her nickname is b***h kitty. Well, after hours anyway.
Dcm didn't mention it at pick up and seemed totally fine. I guess I made a way bigger deal of it than was necessary.
Dcm didn't mention it at pick up and seemed totally fine. I guess I made a way bigger deal of it than was necessary.
NightOwl 03:47 AM 06-20-2015
Originally Posted by Laurel:
Our licensing regulations do not allow pets around dck's. Also parents must be notified that there are pets in the home. We have to put it in writing and they sign it. If a pet injures a child here it is on the provider as the pet is not allowed to be around the children per our regulations.
Laurel
Wow, really? That's sad. Kids can learn so much from animals. Well, maybe not my cat in particular, but as a broad statement. Our licensing regulations do not allow pets around dck's. Also parents must be notified that there are pets in the home. We have to put it in writing and they sign it. If a pet injures a child here it is on the provider as the pet is not allowed to be around the children per our regulations.
Laurel
I would hate not being able to provide them with the experience of having fur friends.
Laurel 09:26 AM 06-20-2015
Originally Posted by NessaRose:
Wow, really? That's sad. Kids can learn so much from animals. Well, maybe not my cat in particular, but as a broad statement. I would hate not being able to provide them with the experience of having fur friends.
It didn't bother me. I am not a pet person and have never had any pets except a fish tank once and tried to save a kitty once that had been abandoned. We never had a pet as kids but had the most wonderful childhood ever. I guess it is just what you get used to. Wow, really? That's sad. Kids can learn so much from animals. Well, maybe not my cat in particular, but as a broad statement.
I would hate not being able to provide them with the experience of having fur friends.If they need to learn something from pets they can have one at their house.
Laurel
daycarediva 06:36 AM 06-21-2015
I installed a locking cat door to our downstairs (ranch/finished basement). I lock it during daycare hours. The only cat I allow around the daycare kids is 1 completely chill dude who loves them. He has never, ever scratched, bit or shown the least bit of frustration. He was fostered with dogs/puppies, so he is more like a laid back dog than a cat. I have had kids literally pull his tail, poke his face and he just looks away. We volunteer him as a therapy cat in ds's special needs school.
NightOwl 10:05 PM 06-21-2015
Originally Posted by daycarediva:
I installed a locking cat door to our downstairs (ranch/finished basement). I lock it during daycare hours. The only cat I allow around the daycare kids is 1 completely chill dude who loves them. He has never, ever scratched, bit or shown the least bit of frustration. He was fostered with dogs/puppies, so he is more like a laid back dog than a cat. I have had kids literally pull his tail, poke his face and he just looks away. We volunteer him as a therapy cat in ds's special needs school.
That's a rare kitty indeed. Or maybe mine just had me trained to think she's the norm so I don't get rid of her. I installed a locking cat door to our downstairs (ranch/finished basement). I lock it during daycare hours. The only cat I allow around the daycare kids is 1 completely chill dude who loves them. He has never, ever scratched, bit or shown the least bit of frustration. He was fostered with dogs/puppies, so he is more like a laid back dog than a cat. I have had kids literally pull his tail, poke his face and he just looks away. We volunteer him as a therapy cat in ds's special needs school.
MarinaVanessa 06:43 PM 06-23-2015
I saw this today and I couldn't resist posting it here. It reminded me of your cat lol
Unregistered 04:25 PM 06-26-2015
I don't know if you have a room you can gate off, but leave the door open so the cat can have a place to run and hide. also if you can move your furniture in such a way that the cat has some hiding places. I tell the kids not to chase my cat, or ever corner my dog or cat. Animals do not like being cornered, or surrounded by too many. They have to feel like they can have an exit.
If things get out of hand, I kick the kids out of the room they are in and gate it off so the pets have refuge.
I used to put my dog in the basement, but his hips are bad so I have to just kick the kiddos out of the room.
Having that one room were the cat feels safe and it is always accessible, is perfect for her. She has litter box and food in there if she needs it.
I too had to change my rule of letting kittty outside because she was hunting a bit too much and I felt bad for my neighbor lady finding dead birds in her yard. She has bird feeders and I know she just loves birds. I like birds too they are beneficial.
If things get out of hand, I kick the kids out of the room they are in and gate it off so the pets have refuge.
I used to put my dog in the basement, but his hips are bad so I have to just kick the kiddos out of the room.
Having that one room were the cat feels safe and it is always accessible, is perfect for her. She has litter box and food in there if she needs it.
I too had to change my rule of letting kittty outside because she was hunting a bit too much and I felt bad for my neighbor lady finding dead birds in her yard. She has bird feeders and I know she just loves birds. I like birds too they are beneficial.
midaycare 07:53 PM 06-26-2015
We have 2 cats and 2 dogs. It's a hectic, fun house we have 1 cat that has to be around the kids all the time, and 1 who won't go near them.
The one who goes around the kids has bit a few of them from time to time, but always because they were trying to pick him up by his tail or some such other thing. Dcf's never seem to mind when I tell them. They see how my cat gets treated and call him a saint!
we have 1 cat that has to be around the kids all the time, and 1 who won't go near them.The one who goes around the kids has bit a few of them from time to time, but always because they were trying to pick him up by his tail or some such other thing. Dcf's never seem to mind when I tell them. They see how my cat gets treated and call him a saint!