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AuntTami 03:48 PM 11-07-2014
My new PT DCB age 4, keeps asking me "why?" I'm almost out of crazy answers and I was out of practical answers by about noon yesterday!
I know it's just part of his age, but he asks "why" about EVERYTHING!
DCB: Wheres mommy going?
Me: To work, she'll be back later.
DCB: Why?
Me: Because she needs to work to take care of you
DCB: Why?
At this point, I usually stop answering the questions, but he continues "why?" until I walk away, which isn't always possible as he does this all day, every day, in response to EVERYTHING. If I answer a question, if I make a statement, if I tell him to do something. I could tell him the grass is green and he would ask me "why?" My answer today was "why not"?
Because I don't know the actual answer and "it just is" wasn't working.
I KNOW this is just part of his age and he's learning, but what should I say when he asks "why" at inappropriate times, or when he keeps asking "why"?
It's NEVER any other question, it's only "Why" and I'm at a loss! I'm so much better with babies than 3 & 4 year olds!
I know it's just part of his age, but he asks "why" about EVERYTHING!
DCB: Wheres mommy going?
Me: To work, she'll be back later.
DCB: Why?
Me: Because she needs to work to take care of you
DCB: Why?
At this point, I usually stop answering the questions, but he continues "why?" until I walk away, which isn't always possible as he does this all day, every day, in response to EVERYTHING. If I answer a question, if I make a statement, if I tell him to do something. I could tell him the grass is green and he would ask me "why?" My answer today was "why not"?
Because I don't know the actual answer and "it just is" wasn't working.I KNOW this is just part of his age and he's learning, but what should I say when he asks "why" at inappropriate times, or when he keeps asking "why"?
It's NEVER any other question, it's only "Why" and I'm at a loss! I'm so much better with babies than 3 & 4 year olds!
hope 04:23 PM 11-07-2014
Do a search for tacos on this forum. I remember someone, BC maybe, explained how they always answered with something about tacos when they were asked questions. I hope I am remembering that correctly. Otherwise I sound like a complete lunatic right now. Hehe.
KiddieCahoots 04:55 PM 11-07-2014
Originally Posted by hope:
Do a search for tacos on this forum. I remember someone, BC maybe, explained how they always answered with something about tacos when they were asked questions. I hope I am remembering that correctly. Otherwise I sound like a complete lunatic right now. Hehe.
Lol!!! That was Crafty!Do a search for tacos on this forum. I remember someone, BC maybe, explained how they always answered with something about tacos when they were asked questions. I hope I am remembering that correctly. Otherwise I sound like a complete lunatic right now. Hehe.
Originally Posted by CraftyMom:
I had a super annoying dcb that was always asking what I was doing, where I was going, etc. No matter what he asked my answer was something about tacos
I don't know where tacos came from, just the first thing that popped in my head one day.
"Ms. L what are you dooooiiiing??" in a whiney voice
Me, "making tacos"
Him "No you're nooottt!" But then he laughed and walked away
or "Ms L where are you goooinngg?"
Me, "to find some tacos"
Him "No sirrrrrr!" and walks away laughing
I must have talked about tacos 4 or 5 times a day! He thought it was funny!
After a while my own 2 sa kids caught on and would join in on the taco talk. Dcb always laughed
I had a super annoying dcb that was always asking what I was doing, where I was going, etc. No matter what he asked my answer was something about tacos
I don't know where tacos came from, just the first thing that popped in my head one day. "Ms. L what are you dooooiiiing??" in a whiney voice
Me, "making tacos"
Him "No you're nooottt!" But then he laughed and walked away
or "Ms L where are you goooinngg?"
Me, "to find some tacos"
Him "No sirrrrrr!" and walks away laughing
I must have talked about tacos 4 or 5 times a day! He thought it was funny!
After a while my own 2 sa kids caught on and would join in on the taco talk. Dcb always laughed
hope 05:10 PM 11-07-2014
Originally Posted by KiddieCahoots:
Lol!!! That was Crafty!
Thank you! I love the taco response.Lol!!! That was Crafty!
KiddieCahoots 05:18 PM 11-07-2014
Originally Posted by hope:
Thank you! I love the taco response.
Welcome Thank you! I love the taco response.
I still giggle about this post when a child asks me why.
Silly Songs 05:23 PM 11-07-2014
You could turn the tables and when he asks "why " you could ask him to think of an answer . That gets them to use their imagination and think of some answers on their own .
craftymissbeth 05:45 PM 11-07-2014
Originally Posted by hope:
Do a search for tacos on this forum. I remember someone, BC maybe, explained how they always answered with something about tacos when they were asked questions. I hope I am remembering that correctly. Otherwise I sound like a complete lunatic right now. Hehe.
After I read that thread I started using the taco response when dcg looks out the window and asks "who's that?" (I live on the busiest street in town... I don't know who every car going by belongs to lol)Do a search for tacos on this forum. I remember someone, BC maybe, explained how they always answered with something about tacos when they were asked questions. I hope I am remembering that correctly. Otherwise I sound like a complete lunatic right now. Hehe.
Dcg: "who's that?"
Me: "tacos"
Dcg: "ooooh"
Now dcg looks out the window and says "B, taco's here!"
daycare 08:56 PM 11-07-2014
Time for the why game
You. Ask dcb all why questions.
Why is the sky blue
Why is your name mark
Why are you wearing pants
Why are you asking me why
Why is it dark at night. When you ask and he answers your question you answer with a why question back.
So if he says why are we coloring you ask why are you sitting in a chair. Never answer when he's in this mode.
He will find it funny and or get tired of it and stop.
You. Ask dcb all why questions.
Why is the sky blue
Why is your name mark
Why are you wearing pants
Why are you asking me why
Why is it dark at night. When you ask and he answers your question you answer with a why question back.
So if he says why are we coloring you ask why are you sitting in a chair. Never answer when he's in this mode.
He will find it funny and or get tired of it and stop.
AuntTami 10:27 PM 11-07-2014
Oh thank you so much ladies! I'm definitely going to try these tricks on Monday!
Second Home 04:19 AM 11-08-2014
After so many why questions I ask the child "why do you think ......" and finish with what they asked and we then talk about it . It does get them to stop and think before always asking why .
daycarediva 06:07 AM 11-08-2014
Originally Posted by Second Home:
After so many why questions I ask the child "why do you think ......" and finish with what they asked and we then talk about it . It does get them to stop and think before always asking why .
This is what I do, too. After so many why questions I ask the child "why do you think ......" and finish with what they asked and we then talk about it . It does get them to stop and think before always asking why .
"What do you think?"
If that doesn't work, I tell them to ask the youngest child here (2). She talks well, so it's usually entertaining.
Soccermom 05:16 PM 11-10-2014
LOL After I read the taco thread I started saying that too!
It keeps me sane because it is hilarious and my own kids smile so brightly every time I say it to a DCK.
I even heard my 5 year old say it to my 3 year old DCG who asks why about a million times a day. I giggled a little. She said " Why are you playing with that ball" and he said "because I love tacos" LOL
Every time we give a taco related response they just walk away....I love it!
The 5 year old DCG I have who follows me around and asks me what I am doing every two minutes will now sometimes say "Mrs. J, are you making tacos again?" Instead of asking me what I am doing. I just laugh and say "Yup!".
It really lightens the mood
It keeps me sane because it is hilarious and my own kids smile so brightly every time I say it to a DCK.
I even heard my 5 year old say it to my 3 year old DCG who asks why about a million times a day. I giggled a little. She said " Why are you playing with that ball" and he said "because I love tacos" LOL
Every time we give a taco related response they just walk away....I love it!
The 5 year old DCG I have who follows me around and asks me what I am doing every two minutes will now sometimes say "Mrs. J, are you making tacos again?" Instead of asking me what I am doing. I just laugh and say "Yup!".
It really lightens the mood
AmyKidsCo 08:10 PM 11-10-2014
Originally Posted by Silly Songs:
You could turn the tables and when he asks "why " you could ask him to think of an answer . That gets them to use their imagination and think of some answers on their own .
I use a version of this and the "taco" technique.You could turn the tables and when he asks "why " you could ask him to think of an answer . That gets them to use their imagination and think of some answers on their own .
Why?
Why do you think?
Why?
Because of the elephants.
I have no idea how the elephant thing started - maybe it was my dad and his elephant jokes. But it keeps me amused when they keep asking why.
Soccermom 07:33 AM 11-11-2014
Originally Posted by Soccermom:
LOL After I read the taco thread I started saying that too!
It keeps me sane because it is hilarious and my own kids smile so brightly every time I say it to a DCK.
I even heard my 5 year old say it to my 3 year old DCG who asks why about a million times a day. I giggled a little. She said " Why are you playing with that ball" and he said "because I love tacos" LOL
Every time we give a taco related response they just walk away....I love it!
The 5 year old DCG I have who follows me around and asks me what I am doing every two minutes will now sometimes say "Mrs. J, are you making tacos again?" Instead of asking me what I am doing. I just laugh and say "Yup!".
It really lightens the mood
Of course I should also add that I do answer most of the kids questions when they ask since it is how they learn about their world. LOL After I read the taco thread I started saying that too!
It keeps me sane because it is hilarious and my own kids smile so brightly every time I say it to a DCK.
I even heard my 5 year old say it to my 3 year old DCG who asks why about a million times a day. I giggled a little. She said " Why are you playing with that ball" and he said "because I love tacos" LOL
Every time we give a taco related response they just walk away....I love it!
The 5 year old DCG I have who follows me around and asks me what I am doing every two minutes will now sometimes say "Mrs. J, are you making tacos again?" Instead of asking me what I am doing. I just laugh and say "Yup!".
It really lightens the mood
I only use the taco thing when I am completely overwhelmed with WAY too many questions from the same DCK. Especially when it is the same questions over and over again. I can't take the kids who ask me what I am doing fifty million times a day but when a DCK asks me why the sky is blue or why the grass is green, I will normally pull out the Ipad and give them a genuine response.
AuntTami 02:23 PM 11-11-2014
Originally Posted by Soccermom:
Of course I should also add that I do answer most of the kids questions when they ask since it is how they learn about their world.
I only use the taco thing when I am completely overwhelmed with WAY too many questions from the same DCK. Especially when it is the same questions over and over again. I can't take the kids who ask me what I am doing fifty million times a day but when a DCK asks me why the sky is blue or why the grass is green, I will normally pull out the Ipad and give them a genuine response.
Lol I give genuine responses for the first couple "why's" or if he asks something other than why(very rarely) but after the 3rd or 4th "why" in the same conversation, I've started saying "tacos" too lol...He just looks at my funny and says "ok" Of course I should also add that I do answer most of the kids questions when they ask since it is how they learn about their world.
I only use the taco thing when I am completely overwhelmed with WAY too many questions from the same DCK. Especially when it is the same questions over and over again. I can't take the kids who ask me what I am doing fifty million times a day but when a DCK asks me why the sky is blue or why the grass is green, I will normally pull out the Ipad and give them a genuine response.
DaveA 05:36 AM 11-12-2014
After a couple of rounds of the why game, my response is that the ducks know & they should ask them next time we feed them. Usually works
Either the DCKs find it funny or I'm teaching kids that ducks are some type of all-seeing oracle.
Either the DCKs find it funny or I'm teaching kids that ducks are some type of all-seeing oracle.
taylorw1210 06:14 AM 11-12-2014
Love all these responses!
I have one little girl who constantly asks where her mommy is. I resorted to telling her that her mommy is busy making money because I got tired of answering, "She's at work". I've said it to the dcg so many times that now ALL my daycare kids say their parents are busy making money rather than saying they are at work.
I have one little girl who constantly asks where her mommy is. I resorted to telling her that her mommy is busy making money because I got tired of answering, "She's at work". I've said it to the dcg so many times that now ALL my daycare kids say their parents are busy making money rather than saying they are at work.
AmyKidsCo 07:15 AM 11-12-2014
Originally Posted by taylorw1210:
Love all these responses!
I have one little girl who constantly asks where her mommy is. I resorted to telling her that her mommy is busy making money because I got tired of answering, "She's at work". I've said it to the dcg so many times that now ALL my daycare kids say their parents are busy making money rather than saying they are at work.
I have a 3 yr old that asks questions for attention. "Are you cleaning the table?" "Where's my mom?" "Are we having lunch?" I always respond "What do you think?" And she gives me the answer, then goes to play.Love all these responses!
I have one little girl who constantly asks where her mommy is. I resorted to telling her that her mommy is busy making money because I got tired of answering, "She's at work". I've said it to the dcg so many times that now ALL my daycare kids say their parents are busy making money rather than saying they are at work.