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Meeko 07:06 AM 02-11-2013
About 14 years ago, a single mother brought her 3 year old son to our daycare. I adored him from day one. A very sweet child.
His mother struggled a lot with health issues and depression. They lived close by and we became close. We helped out any way we could. She was always so grateful and tried so hard to better herself with school and work and be a good mom.
Her son continued in our daycare for many years. We went to school functions etc to support him when his mom couldn't.
When he was 12 years old and still a before and after school kid, his mom went into the hospital for hip surgery. Her brother called me and told me that DCM didn't make it. She developed complications which took her life. Could I keep DCB until he could get there?
It is one of the hardest things I have ever done. I had lost a dear friend and her son was in my house, oblivious to it. I had to keep it together until his uncle got there. A terrible, terrible day.
The day of her funeral, the family invited me to stand as a member of the family. I was so honored. The day was marred by the fact that the "sperm donor" arrived and claimed he was taking the boy back to Arizona. We were all heartbroken. The child had just lost the only parent he had known and a stranger was taking him to another state.
But....all's well that ends well. The father called the uncle within a week and more or less said "I'm not cut out for fatherhood. How fast can you get here?" The uncle (and others) drove off immediately to get him. He has been living with his uncle and family (WONDERFUL people) ever since.
This picture is of a wonderful, now 17 year old getting his Eagle Scout last week. He is thriving and a young man his mother would be so proud of.
I love this kid like my own and we keep in regular contact. He lives in Idaho and we don't see him as often as we would like, but he never fails to call or visit if he can.
This photo makes me happy to put up with all the BS we sometimes go through as providers. My job made him a part of my life and I am blessed because of it. Today is a good day!
His mother struggled a lot with health issues and depression. They lived close by and we became close. We helped out any way we could. She was always so grateful and tried so hard to better herself with school and work and be a good mom.
Her son continued in our daycare for many years. We went to school functions etc to support him when his mom couldn't.
When he was 12 years old and still a before and after school kid, his mom went into the hospital for hip surgery. Her brother called me and told me that DCM didn't make it. She developed complications which took her life. Could I keep DCB until he could get there?
It is one of the hardest things I have ever done. I had lost a dear friend and her son was in my house, oblivious to it. I had to keep it together until his uncle got there. A terrible, terrible day.
The day of her funeral, the family invited me to stand as a member of the family. I was so honored. The day was marred by the fact that the "sperm donor" arrived and claimed he was taking the boy back to Arizona. We were all heartbroken. The child had just lost the only parent he had known and a stranger was taking him to another state.
But....all's well that ends well. The father called the uncle within a week and more or less said "I'm not cut out for fatherhood. How fast can you get here?" The uncle (and others) drove off immediately to get him. He has been living with his uncle and family (WONDERFUL people) ever since.
This picture is of a wonderful, now 17 year old getting his Eagle Scout last week. He is thriving and a young man his mother would be so proud of.
I love this kid like my own and we keep in regular contact. He lives in Idaho and we don't see him as often as we would like, but he never fails to call or visit if he can.
This photo makes me happy to put up with all the BS we sometimes go through as providers. My job made him a part of my life and I am blessed because of it. Today is a good day!
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SilverSabre25 07:12 AM 02-11-2013
Meeko, this story made me cry--in a good way. What an amazing force for good you have been in this child's and family's life!
bunnyslippers 07:17 AM 02-11-2013
You should be proud! I am also a bit weepy over this story, in such a good way. You were sent into this boy's life for a reason, and you are clearly a gift to this family. Good for that boy, and his family, and you! I am sure his mother is smiling down on you and him every single day!
mom2many 07:20 AM 02-11-2013
That is super cool! 
What an awesome feeling it must be to see him succeed!
When I am having a tough day, I always try to think about positive things like this, where I have made a difference in a child's life and thank God for entrusting me with such a special job!
What an awesome feeling it must be to see him succeed! When I am having a tough day, I always try to think about positive things like this, where I have made a difference in a child's life and thank God for entrusting me with such a special job!
Meeko 07:24 AM 02-11-2013
I sometimes get so tied up in dealing with the parents who have payment problems, can't follow rules....kids who won't listen etc......
This job is hard work. But today I am trying to think of the blessings that have come from it. The kids I have grown to love. Parents who have made my life BETTER.
This job is hard work. But today I am trying to think of the blessings that have come from it. The kids I have grown to love. Parents who have made my life BETTER.
kathiemarie 07:31 AM 02-11-2013
Brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharring
MamaBearCanada 07:55 AM 02-11-2013
Crying & smiling at the same time!
MyAngels 08:05 AM 02-11-2013
What a great reminder of the positive side of our business! I'm so glad he was able to not only survive but thrive after the loss of his mom .
Thanks so much for sharing
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. Thanks so much for sharing
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Blackcat31 08:08 AM 02-11-2013
I couldn't see the picture....my screen suddenly got really blurry while I was reading......
What a truly heartwarming story Meeko!
What a truly heartwarming story Meeko!
williams2008 08:19 AM 02-11-2013
Very touching story!!
butterfly 08:21 AM 02-11-2013
Great story! Needed that today! Thank you!!
rbmom 08:23 AM 02-11-2013
Thank you for sharing that! Simply awesome!
melilley 08:24 AM 02-11-2013
Awwww I have tears in my eyes! He will remember you for the rest of his life!
Heidi 08:25 AM 02-11-2013
Originally Posted by MamaBearCanada:
Crying & smiling at the same time!
Me too!Crying & smiling at the same time!
laundrymom 09:04 AM 02-11-2013
Originally Posted by Heidi:
Me too!
Me too!!!!You are amazing.Me too!
boysx5 09:14 AM 02-11-2013
Great story makes this job special
mrsnj 09:28 AM 02-11-2013
that made me cry
frugalmama4 09:35 AM 02-11-2013
Yes I'm crying...tears of joy.
How blessed are you to be apart of his life and to have such an impact on him. So glad God used you & your family in this way...and I'm sure his Mother your friend is smiling down upon you all.
Great Testimony!
How blessed are you to be apart of his life and to have such an impact on him. So glad God used you & your family in this way...and I'm sure his Mother your friend is smiling down upon you all.
Great Testimony!
jessrlee 09:57 AM 02-11-2013
Big hugs to you!! You are an amazing woman!
Kaddidle Care 10:02 AM 02-11-2013
Nice! And an Eagle at 17! Show's he's a go-getter! They usually are 18 around here and barely make it!
small_steps 10:14 AM 02-11-2013
What a touching story. Thank you for sharing.
daycarediva 10:33 AM 02-11-2013
Wow, what an amazing young man!
You're pretty awesome too, Meeko!
You're pretty awesome too, Meeko!
mema 10:34 AM 02-11-2013
Awesome!
makap 10:45 AM 02-11-2013
You made me cry! This is so awesome. What an amazing feeling to know you made a difference. We often forget how important we are in the lives of "our" kids! God Bless you!
pandamom 10:48 AM 02-11-2013
meeko thanks for sharing that story. I got all misty eyed reading it
momofsix 11:04 AM 02-11-2013
What a beautiful story Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for sharing!
Patches 11:18 AM 02-11-2013
Originally Posted by MamaBearCanada:
Crying & smiling at the same time!
Me too!Crying & smiling at the same time!
MarinaVanessa 12:13 PM 02-11-2013
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
I couldn't see the picture....my screen suddenly got really blurry while I was reading......
What a truly heartwarming story Meeko!
Mine too, I had to blink my eyes a few times before I could blink away the heartwarmed tears that started to build. What a wonderful story, and to think that Meeko was a part of that child early life and success. Congratulations Meeko.I couldn't see the picture....my screen suddenly got really blurry while I was reading......
What a truly heartwarming story Meeko!
canadiancare 12:17 PM 02-11-2013
That is a lovely feel good story. Thanks for sharing and congratulations to the Eagle Scout.
KDC 12:40 PM 02-11-2013
That's a great story, thanks for sharing!!
Mom2Five+ 02:36 PM 02-11-2013
Had a rough Monday with but this just made my day better. Great story and thanks for sharing
Brooksie 03:52 PM 02-11-2013
Awww this made me cry! Such a sad story with a happy ending. What a great young man!