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Unregistered 01:13 PM 07-18-2014
Backstory: I have put up with this ridiculous family since December. I have posted about this family before. The 3 yo DCB is.... insane behavior problems. I am a single mom with two young children and felt VERY trapped because the family took up 3 spots. I am closing to move in with my family and go back to school. I never should have taken this faimly on and there have been immediate term worthy **** happening for months.
Dear DCF,
I so ENJOYED being hit, smacked, spit on, called a B***H in my own home in front of my children, and told that I was the root of the problems. It was probably the most enjoyable experience of my daycare career. Oh, and the baby who you would not help when it so clearly needed intervention. OH, and I am sure this will be really hard on us because precious SA will no longer be around to make snarky comments and upset the group so readily and easily with their negativity, attitude, and temperment. Or tear apart my DD's heart by telling her to lie to her mom or she wouldn't be best friends with her. THAT was just an AWESOME talk to have. So you will understand when I say I wish I did not have to write this letter and tell you this news.
I am leaving the state - maybe the country. If I never see your crazy family again, it will be too soon. I might not ever get over how atrocious the behavior was. If I didn't ever have kids, yours would have convinced me to never have sex with anyone. Ever. EVER. Not even on my wedding night. Marryin' a eunuch, yo.
Your excuses for the behavior issues were almost believeable. Except you gave permission for the previous caregiver and I to talk. See, that was your first mistake. (Also mine for not asking sooner.) See, while you so blithely claimed DCB was great except for one or two incidents, she laughed her ASS off and told me exactly what was going on... Huh, the same thing if not worse for her. WEIRD. WEIRD that you would lie and keep up that lie after you knew we talked.
And then there is the part where you are horrible about paying. Yeah, that sucked. Or you tried to defraud the government, that was bad too. And the horribly late pick ups and the late morning drop offs with kids who ate donuts and bug juice for breakfast.
OH, yeah, lets talk about juice. Remember how you claimed that DCB had atrocious horrible awful blow out diarrhea because I gave him some watered down juice? And that the liquid feces all over my place was my fault? And then I got horribly sick? And then every time he got sick you blamed it on juice?
BUT THEN I CAUGHT YOU GIVING THEM STRAIGHT JUICE FOR BREAKFAST?!
Wow, I am just so excited to recount our experience together I lost track of everything.
You have two weeks with me and if your kids hits me again you will have to come pick them up and I will never ever ever have them in my home again. byw
Dear DCF,
I so ENJOYED being hit, smacked, spit on, called a B***H in my own home in front of my children, and told that I was the root of the problems. It was probably the most enjoyable experience of my daycare career. Oh, and the baby who you would not help when it so clearly needed intervention. OH, and I am sure this will be really hard on us because precious SA will no longer be around to make snarky comments and upset the group so readily and easily with their negativity, attitude, and temperment. Or tear apart my DD's heart by telling her to lie to her mom or she wouldn't be best friends with her. THAT was just an AWESOME talk to have. So you will understand when I say I wish I did not have to write this letter and tell you this news.
I am leaving the state - maybe the country. If I never see your crazy family again, it will be too soon. I might not ever get over how atrocious the behavior was. If I didn't ever have kids, yours would have convinced me to never have sex with anyone. Ever. EVER. Not even on my wedding night. Marryin' a eunuch, yo.
Your excuses for the behavior issues were almost believeable. Except you gave permission for the previous caregiver and I to talk. See, that was your first mistake. (Also mine for not asking sooner.) See, while you so blithely claimed DCB was great except for one or two incidents, she laughed her ASS off and told me exactly what was going on... Huh, the same thing if not worse for her. WEIRD. WEIRD that you would lie and keep up that lie after you knew we talked.
And then there is the part where you are horrible about paying. Yeah, that sucked. Or you tried to defraud the government, that was bad too. And the horribly late pick ups and the late morning drop offs with kids who ate donuts and bug juice for breakfast.
OH, yeah, lets talk about juice. Remember how you claimed that DCB had atrocious horrible awful blow out diarrhea because I gave him some watered down juice? And that the liquid feces all over my place was my fault? And then I got horribly sick? And then every time he got sick you blamed it on juice?
BUT THEN I CAUGHT YOU GIVING THEM STRAIGHT JUICE FOR BREAKFAST?!
Wow, I am just so excited to recount our experience together I lost track of everything.
You have two weeks with me and if your kids hits me again you will have to come pick them up and I will never ever ever have them in my home again. byw
Unregistered 01:15 PM 07-18-2014
OP here
To add depth - mom never followed through with discipline, never attempted to truly correct behaviors. There was no intervention. She put 2yo in room alone when he was "bad" and that was it.
After CUSSING UP A STORM in front of me she blamed her boy calling me a B on their young relatives.
I RUE THE DAY.
To add depth - mom never followed through with discipline, never attempted to truly correct behaviors. There was no intervention. She put 2yo in room alone when he was "bad" and that was it.
After CUSSING UP A STORM in front of me she blamed her boy calling me a B on their young relatives.
I RUE THE DAY.
craftymissbeth 01:17 PM 07-18-2014
Originally Posted by :
Marryin' a eunuch, yo.
Marryin' a eunuch, yo.
Blackcat31 01:17 PM 07-18-2014
Originally Posted by Unregistered:
Backstory: I have put up with this ridiculous family since December. I have posted about this family before. The 3 yo DCB is.... insane behavior problems. I am a single mom with two young children and felt VERY trapped because the family took up 3 spots. I am closing to move in with my family and go back to school. I never should have taken this faimly on and there have been immediate term worthy **** happening for months.
Dear DCF,
I so ENJOYED being hit, smacked, spit on, called a B***H in my own home in front of my children, and told that I was the root of the problems. It was probably the most enjoyable experience of my daycare career. Oh, and the baby who you would not help when it so clearly needed intervention. OH, and I am sure this will be really hard on us because precious SA will no longer be around to make snarky comments and upset the group so readily and easily with their negativity, attitude, and temperment. Or tear apart my DD's heart by telling her to lie to her mom or she wouldn't be best friends with her. THAT was just an AWESOME talk to have. So you will understand when I say I wish I did not have to write this letter and tell you this news.
I am leaving the state - maybe the country. If I never see your crazy family again, it will be too soon. I might not ever get over how atrocious the behavior was. If I didn't ever have kids, yours would have convinced me to never have sex with anyone. Ever. EVER. Not even on my wedding night. Marryin' a eunuch, yo.
Your excuses for the behavior issues were almost believeable. Except you gave permission for the previous caregiver and I to talk. See, that was your first mistake. (Also mine for not asking sooner.) See, while you so blithely claimed DCB was great except for one or two incidents, she laughed her ASS off and told me exactly what was going on... Huh, the same thing if not worse for her. WEIRD. WEIRD that you would lie and keep up that lie after you knew we talked.
And then there is the part where you are horrible about paying. Yeah, that sucked. Or you tried to defraud the government, that was bad too. And the horribly late pick ups and the late morning drop offs with kids who ate donuts and bug juice for breakfast.
OH, yeah, lets talk about juice. Remember how you claimed that DCB had atrocious horrible awful blow out diarrhea because I gave him some watered down juice? And that the liquid feces all over my place was my fault? And then I got horribly sick? And then every time he got sick you blamed it on juice?
BUT THEN I CAUGHT YOU GIVING THEM STRAIGHT JUICE FOR BREAKFAST?!
Wow, I am just so excited to recount our experience together I lost track of everything.
You have two weeks with me and if your kids hits me again you will have to come pick them up and I will never ever ever have them in my home again. byw
Backstory: I have put up with this ridiculous family since December. I have posted about this family before. The 3 yo DCB is.... insane behavior problems. I am a single mom with two young children and felt VERY trapped because the family took up 3 spots. I am closing to move in with my family and go back to school. I never should have taken this faimly on and there have been immediate term worthy **** happening for months.
Dear DCF,
I so ENJOYED being hit, smacked, spit on, called a B***H in my own home in front of my children, and told that I was the root of the problems. It was probably the most enjoyable experience of my daycare career. Oh, and the baby who you would not help when it so clearly needed intervention. OH, and I am sure this will be really hard on us because precious SA will no longer be around to make snarky comments and upset the group so readily and easily with their negativity, attitude, and temperment. Or tear apart my DD's heart by telling her to lie to her mom or she wouldn't be best friends with her. THAT was just an AWESOME talk to have. So you will understand when I say I wish I did not have to write this letter and tell you this news.
I am leaving the state - maybe the country. If I never see your crazy family again, it will be too soon. I might not ever get over how atrocious the behavior was. If I didn't ever have kids, yours would have convinced me to never have sex with anyone. Ever. EVER. Not even on my wedding night. Marryin' a eunuch, yo.
Your excuses for the behavior issues were almost believeable. Except you gave permission for the previous caregiver and I to talk. See, that was your first mistake. (Also mine for not asking sooner.) See, while you so blithely claimed DCB was great except for one or two incidents, she laughed her ASS off and told me exactly what was going on... Huh, the same thing if not worse for her. WEIRD. WEIRD that you would lie and keep up that lie after you knew we talked.
And then there is the part where you are horrible about paying. Yeah, that sucked. Or you tried to defraud the government, that was bad too. And the horribly late pick ups and the late morning drop offs with kids who ate donuts and bug juice for breakfast.
OH, yeah, lets talk about juice. Remember how you claimed that DCB had atrocious horrible awful blow out diarrhea because I gave him some watered down juice? And that the liquid feces all over my place was my fault? And then I got horribly sick? And then every time he got sick you blamed it on juice?
BUT THEN I CAUGHT YOU GIVING THEM STRAIGHT JUICE FOR BREAKFAST?!
Wow, I am just so excited to recount our experience together I lost track of everything.
You have two weeks with me and if your kids hits me again you will have to come pick them up and I will never ever ever have them in my home again. byw
after all of that, you are still willing to do two more weeks with them?????
Leigh 05:55 PM 07-18-2014
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
after all of that, you are still willing to do two more weeks with them?????
I agree. I'd totally call tonight to tell them adios. after all of that, you are still willing to do two more weeks with them?????
coolconfidentme 07:11 PM 07-18-2014
Put a note on the front door...., I QUIT!!! F them & the horse they rode in on!
MotherNature 04:40 AM 07-19-2014
From experience with a similar parent- term them immediately or on the next infraction, no matter how minor. I wouldn't give them another second, especially with the stress of moving. You don't need the added stress. They'd have been gone when the kid called me that and mom did nothing. Update when you can.
KidGrind 07:26 AM 07-19-2014
I got a headache reading this post. I have no idea why.
OP you are a soldier because the second watery liquid bowel movement child would’ve immediate pick-up. The third would’ve been term.
OP you are a soldier because the second watery liquid bowel movement child would’ve immediate pick-up. The third would’ve been term.
MOM OF 4 07:34 AM 07-19-2014
If you're paid up...TERM YESTERDAY!
EntropyControlSpecialist 11:24 AM 07-19-2014
Originally Posted by MOM OF 4:
If you're paid up...TERM YESTERDAY!
Exactly this. Bubyeeeee.If you're paid up...TERM YESTERDAY!