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AllDeezBabies 08:49 PM 08-20-2013
This was a post from one of my facebook friends.
"If It's a must that u make an appointment to view/check out a Daycare ctr, daycare home, etc. Then It's safe to say, you do not want your loved ones in their facility."
I was very darn offended. Especially since I work on appointments for new clients.
"If It's a must that u make an appointment to view/check out a Daycare ctr, daycare home, etc. Then It's safe to say, you do not want your loved ones in their facility."
I was very darn offended. Especially since I work on appointments for new clients.
daycare 08:53 PM 08-20-2013
So letting strangers in when ever they want to walk in is safe.
Sorry wht a dummy.
I would have said something. She knows you have a daycare?
Sorry wht a dummy.
I would have said something. She knows you have a daycare?
MyAngels 08:54 PM 08-20-2013
Am I reading that correctly - that he/she thinks you shouldn't have to make an appointment to initially interview and tour a new facility? If so, good luck with that 
.
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daycare 08:59 PM 08-20-2013
Exactly.
Who would with their child at a place that peoe could just randomly walk in whenever they want. That's called not keeping a safe environment.
People should really think before they post things on a social media site the world can see........
Who would with their child at a place that peoe could just randomly walk in whenever they want. That's called not keeping a safe environment.
People should really think before they post things on a social media site the world can see........
AllDeezBabies 09:08 PM 08-20-2013
Originally Posted by daycare:
So letting strangers in when ever they want to walk in is safe.
Sorry wht a dummy.
I would have said something. She knows you have a daycare?
I had a mouthful and she knows I have a daycare. I don't know how to post screenshots.So letting strangers in when ever they want to walk in is safe.
Sorry wht a dummy.
I would have said something. She knows you have a daycare?
blandino 09:09 PM 08-20-2013
I always tell parents, would you be okay with me allowing a stranger in while your child was present ? Normally they understand.
That is an ignorant comment.
That is an ignorant comment.
AllDeezBabies 09:09 PM 08-20-2013
Originally Posted by MyAngels:
Am I reading that correctly - that he/she thinks you shouldn't have to make an appointment to initially interview and tour a new facility? If so, good luck with that.
Am I reading that correctly - that he/she thinks you shouldn't have to make an appointment to initially interview and tour a new facility? If so, good luck with that
.Yes that is what she is saying. This is her reasoning " I wanna be able to see EVERYTHING on first UNinvited sight. I NEED to knw my baby is being treated right. Feed, diaper changed, treating her right, teaching her, paying attention to ALL of the kids at one time. Cause lord knows, If mine are being mistreated......Momma, Daddy, Sister, Brothers, Uncles.....we COMING."
MyAngels 09:13 PM 08-20-2013
Originally Posted by AllDeezBabies:
Yes that is what she is saying. This is her reasoning " I wanna be able to see EVERYTHING on first UNinvited sight. I NEED to knw my baby is being treated right. Feed, diaper changed, treating her right, teaching her, paying attention to ALL of the kids at one time. Cause lord knows, If mine are being mistreated......Momma, Daddy, Sister, Brothers, Uncles.....we COMING."
Oh yes, because certainly the threat of mob action will surely ensure that your provider will treat your little precious with kid gloves Yes that is what she is saying. This is her reasoning " I wanna be able to see EVERYTHING on first UNinvited sight. I NEED to knw my baby is being treated right. Feed, diaper changed, treating her right, teaching her, paying attention to ALL of the kids at one time. Cause lord knows, If mine are being mistreated......Momma, Daddy, Sister, Brothers, Uncles.....we COMING."
AllDeezBabies 09:13 PM 08-20-2013
"Im saying that to say this. Ppl prepare they facilities for guest. If i pop up, u cant prepare nothing! I need to see how u do/keep things situated. How u treat those kids on any giving day."
" I need to know what MY child is walking into"
" I need to know what MY child is walking into"
dbslas 09:26 PM 08-20-2013
Originally Posted by AllDeezBabies:
"Im saying that to say this. Ppl prepare they facilities for guest. If i pop up, u cant prepare nothing! I need to see how u do/keep things situated. How u treat those kids on any giving day."
" I need to know what MY child is walking into"
I would say, "All you need to know is that YOUR child ain't walkin' in here, 'cuz you crazy!"Im saying that to say this. Ppl prepare they facilities for guest. If i pop up, u cant prepare nothing! I need to see how u do/keep things situated. How u treat those kids on any giving day."
" I need to know what MY child is walking into"
littlemissmuffet 09:54 PM 08-20-2013
I'm assuming she has no kids? Or her kids aren't in daycare (yet)?I can't even imagine what kind of a gongshow daycare DOESN'T schedule appointments for interviews....
I'm sure she'll change her mind when she CAN'T find a daycare that allows such absurdity!
littlemissmuffet 09:54 PM 08-20-2013
Originally Posted by dbslas:
I would say, "All you need to know is that YOUR child ain't walkin' in here, 'cuz you crazy!
I would say, "All you need to know is that YOUR child ain't walkin' in here, 'cuz you crazy!
awesome!
Brooksie 04:32 AM 08-21-2013
Originally Posted by blandino:
I always tell parents, would you be okay with me allowing a stranger in while your child was present ? Normally they understand.
That is an ignorant comment.
I always tell parents, would you be okay with me allowing a stranger in while your child was present ? Normally they understand.
That is an ignorant comment.
This.
Cat Herder 04:37 AM 08-21-2013
Sounds like someone is bitter because they "can't" show up for appts on time and are now blackballed by the providers association in their county. 
Hope she likes commuting.
Hope she likes commuting.
coolconfidentme 04:43 AM 08-21-2013
Originally Posted by AllDeezBabies:
This was a post from one of my facebook friends.
"If It's a must that u make an appointment to view/check out a Daycare ctr, daycare home, etc. Then It's safe to say, you do not want your loved ones in their facility."
I was very darn offended. Especially since I work on appointments for new clients.
I would post:This was a post from one of my facebook friends.
"If It's a must that u make an appointment to view/check out a Daycare ctr, daycare home, etc. Then It's safe to say, you do not want your loved ones in their facility."
I was very darn offended. Especially since I work on appointments for new clients.
It's ALSO safe to say you don't want your child going to a school that makes you buzz in either!
Leigh 08:51 AM 08-21-2013
Originally Posted by AllDeezBabies:
This was a post from one of my facebook friends.
"If It's a must that u make an appointment to view/check out a Daycare ctr, daycare home, etc. Then It's safe to say, you do not want your loved ones in their facility."
I was very darn offended. Especially since I work on appointments for new clients.
I hope you gave an appropriate reply discussing the rights of the CHILDREN not to have their day disrupted, the right to safety, and your own need to schedule your day (I swear they think we just sit around all day doing nothing!).This was a post from one of my facebook friends.
"If It's a must that u make an appointment to view/check out a Daycare ctr, daycare home, etc. Then It's safe to say, you do not want your loved ones in their facility."
I was very darn offended. Especially since I work on appointments for new clients.
Blackcat31 09:02 AM 08-21-2013
It's one thing for ENROLLED parents to stop in unannounced but to simply assume that a required appointment is a major red flag tells me this parent has some SERIOUS trust issues.
If that were a current parent of mine, she would be a past parent of mine before the end of the day.
I REQUIRE appointments.
I also work on trust BOTH from the parent and to the parent.
I bet this is the same family that posted on Craig's List looking for a nanny....you know the family that wasn't offering money....just the wonderful opportunity to be the family slave.
If that were a current parent of mine, she would be a past parent of mine before the end of the day.
I REQUIRE appointments.
I also work on trust BOTH from the parent and to the parent.
I bet this is the same family that posted on Craig's List looking for a nanny....you know the family that wasn't offering money....just the wonderful opportunity to be the family slave.
Hunni Bee 09:35 AM 08-21-2013
Originally Posted by littlemissmuffet:
I'm assuming she has no kids? Or her kids aren't in daycare (yet)?
I can't even imagine what kind of a gongshow daycare DOESN'T schedule appointments for interviews....
I'm sure she'll change her mind when she CAN'T find a daycare that allows such absurdity!
My old job didn't. Whatever a gongshow is, it was one. I'm assuming she has no kids? Or her kids aren't in daycare (yet)?I can't even imagine what kind of a gongshow daycare DOESN'T schedule appointments for interviews....
I'm sure she'll change her mind when she CAN'T find a daycare that allows such absurdity!
People would walk into your circle time, lunch time, whatever. Complete strangers. People would randomly appear in your doorway, unknown kids would be dumped into your numbers to try and impress the parent.
You would be pulled from your kids to do tours and enroll people. Phone calls were never fielded...your cell number would even occasionally be given out - to strangers.
I eventually stopped it, but I had to put my foot down.
I can give her the address and phone number of that one.
Some people actually like unorganized, informal and random.
Angelsj 11:01 AM 08-21-2013
Originally Posted by AllDeezBabies:
Yes that is what she is saying. This is her reasoning " I wanna be able to see EVERYTHING on first UNinvited sight. I NEED to knw my baby is being treated right. Feed, diaper changed, treating her right, teaching her, paying attention to ALL of the kids at one time. Cause lord knows, If mine are being mistreated......Momma, Daddy, Sister, Brothers, Uncles.....we COMING."
If the kid has that many relatives...coming...they don't need daycare. Yes that is what she is saying. This is her reasoning " I wanna be able to see EVERYTHING on first UNinvited sight. I NEED to knw my baby is being treated right. Feed, diaper changed, treating her right, teaching her, paying attention to ALL of the kids at one time. Cause lord knows, If mine are being mistreated......Momma, Daddy, Sister, Brothers, Uncles.....we COMING."
Angelsj 11:05 AM 08-21-2013
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
I bet this is the same family that posted on Craig's List looking for a nanny....you know the family that wasn't offering money....just the wonderful opportunity to be the family slave.
I bet this is the same family that posted on Craig's List looking for a nanny....you know the family that wasn't offering money....just the wonderful opportunity to be the family slave.
Seriously people!! This place needs a no drink warning!!
melilley 11:06 AM 08-21-2013
Originally Posted by Angelsj:
If the kid has that many relatives...coming...they don't need daycare.
If the kid has that many relatives...coming...they don't need daycare.
CedarCreek 11:11 AM 08-21-2013
THAT made me LOL so hard!
Some people are just so ignorant.
I just would have commented that as a potential provider, Im going to have to come unannounced to YOUR house. Just to make sure that I am treating your child the EXACT way you are treating them when YOU don't think anyone is coming to see. I'm all about consistency.
Some people are just so ignorant.
I just would have commented that as a potential provider, Im going to have to come unannounced to YOUR house. Just to make sure that I am treating your child the EXACT way you are treating them when YOU don't think anyone is coming to see. I'm all about consistency.
Blackcat31 11:14 AM 08-21-2013
Originally Posted by Angelsj:
If the kid has that many relatives...coming...they don't need daycare.
LOL!! If the kid has that many relatives...coming...they don't need daycare.
That would have been the perfect response post!
MyAngels 11:27 AM 08-21-2013
Originally Posted by Angelsj:
If the kid has that many relatives...coming...they don't need daycare.
If the kid has that many relatives...coming...they don't need daycare.
KnoxMom 11:44 AM 08-21-2013
I can only agree with this if she is talking about a large facility in which the director/staff gives the tour. I remember popping in a few places for a tour when I had my first child and being very pleased with some places while others were a complete disaster. Needless to say, I was glad my visit was unannounced because nothing appeared "staged". However, in a child care home (which I operate) it just isn't realistic or even safe. I have an open door policy for ENROLLED parents and simply request that they try to limit their time so as not to interrupt the class and avoid nap time so it doesn't disrupt our schedule. I haven't had any issues yet and I love when they pop in early and see us in the middle of crafts or a science project, etc. I think it helps me feel some type of accountability as well to have in the back of my mind that the doorbell could ring at any moment. If this is a "friend" I'm sure you educated her on the issues of safety, classroom management and privacy policies to rid her of that ignorance. Happy Hump Day everyone!!
misslori50 12:55 PM 08-21-2013
Originally Posted by KnoxMom:
I can only agree with this if she is talking about a large facility in which the director/staff gives the tour. I remember popping in a few places for a tour when I had my first child and being very pleased with some places while others were a complete disaster. Needless to say, I was glad my visit was unannounced because nothing appeared "staged". However, in a child care home (which I operate) it just isn't realistic or even safe. I have an open door policy for ENROLLED parents and simply request that they try to limit their time so as not to interrupt the class and avoid nap time so it doesn't disrupt our schedule. I haven't had any issues yet and I love when they pop in early and see us in the middle of crafts or a science project, etc. I think it helps me feel some type of accountability as well to have in the back of my mind that the doorbell could ring at any moment. If this is a "friend" I'm sure you educated her on the issues of safety, classroom management and privacy policies to rid her of that ignorance. Happy Hump Day everyone!!
I love your response. I can only agree with this if she is talking about a large facility in which the director/staff gives the tour. I remember popping in a few places for a tour when I had my first child and being very pleased with some places while others were a complete disaster. Needless to say, I was glad my visit was unannounced because nothing appeared "staged". However, in a child care home (which I operate) it just isn't realistic or even safe. I have an open door policy for ENROLLED parents and simply request that they try to limit their time so as not to interrupt the class and avoid nap time so it doesn't disrupt our schedule. I haven't had any issues yet and I love when they pop in early and see us in the middle of crafts or a science project, etc. I think it helps me feel some type of accountability as well to have in the back of my mind that the doorbell could ring at any moment. If this is a "friend" I'm sure you educated her on the issues of safety, classroom management and privacy policies to rid her of that ignorance. Happy Hump Day everyone!!
This post made me think for future. I wonder what families would think if we were to let a total stranger come in during the middle of our days. So far ive done some interviews in the day time but im jsut starting our. This will make me think for the future when i have many kids what I will do
nannyde 01:49 PM 08-21-2013
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
I bet this is the same family that posted on Craig's List looking for a nanny....you know the family that wasn't offering money....just the wonderful opportunity to be the family slave.
I bet this is the same family that posted on Craig's List looking for a nanny....you know the family that wasn't offering money....just the wonderful opportunity to be the family slave.
Exactly
harperluu 04:45 PM 08-21-2013
I need to use the term gongshow daycare more often, as in I'm not sure what type of gongshow daycare you think I'm running here, but...
Also, walking into someone's home unannounced while people are present is called a home invasion. It doesn't matter what type of business they're running inside. Otherwise my residential area would be zoned commercial and the sign hanging above my door would read, "Target."
Also, walking into someone's home unannounced while people are present is called a home invasion. It doesn't matter what type of business they're running inside. Otherwise my residential area would be zoned commercial and the sign hanging above my door would read, "Target."
MyAngels 06:25 PM 08-21-2013
Originally Posted by harperluu:
I need to use the term gongshow daycare more often, as in I'm not sure what type of gongshow daycare you think I'm running here, but...
Also, walking into someone's home unannounced while people are present is called a home invasion. It doesn't matter what type of business they're running inside. Otherwise my residential area would be zoned commercial and the sign hanging above my door would read, "Target."
I need to use the term gongshow daycare more often, as in I'm not sure what type of gongshow daycare you think I'm running here, but...
Also, walking into someone's home unannounced while people are present is called a home invasion. It doesn't matter what type of business they're running inside. Otherwise my residential area would be zoned commercial and the sign hanging above my door would read, "Target."
Also, for all you young'uns out there: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Gong_Show
and
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xERBJPiYjjA
EntropyControlSpecialist 05:43 AM 08-22-2013
This thread has me giggling the whole way through.
First off, the text talk drives me crazy and I was cringing the whole time I read that.
Secondly, no. Just no. Every single person I interview has to schedule an appointment because I am working during the workday and I won't allow strangers around the children I care for. If you don't have an interview, I don't have any paperwork printed off, I'm likely doing something with my own child after hours (either not in the house at all, preparing dinner, eating dinner, etc.), or I am resting after a 10-11 hour day WITH children present not to mention the extra time after/before work preparing things.
First off, the text talk drives me crazy and I was cringing the whole time I read that.
Secondly, no. Just no. Every single person I interview has to schedule an appointment because I am working during the workday and I won't allow strangers around the children I care for. If you don't have an interview, I don't have any paperwork printed off, I'm likely doing something with my own child after hours (either not in the house at all, preparing dinner, eating dinner, etc.), or I am resting after a 10-11 hour day WITH children present not to mention the extra time after/before work preparing things.
Cat Herder 07:23 AM 08-22-2013
Originally Posted by harperluu:
Also, walking into someone's home unannounced while people are present is called a home invasion.
Also, walking into someone's home unannounced while people are present is called a home invasion.
True.... so true.There is a HUGE difference in one provider, in their HOME and a CENTER whom has a receptionist, director, owner AND security to filter through before coming into contact with other peoples children.
Come on.. this is a simple concept to grasp.
Blackcat31 09:37 AM 08-22-2013
Originally Posted by Cat Herder:
True.... so true.
There is a HUGE difference in one provider, in their HOME and a CENTER whom has a receptionist, director, owner AND security to filter through before coming into contact with other peoples children.
Come on.. this is a simple concept to grasp.
Yes, but you know as well as I do that the simpler something is the more complicated others make it. True.... so true.There is a HUGE difference in one provider, in their HOME and a CENTER whom has a receptionist, director, owner AND security to filter through before coming into contact with other peoples children.
Come on.. this is a simple concept to grasp.
lovemykidstoo 10:17 AM 08-22-2013
This reminds me of a phone call I received this past Tuesday. Lady calls and asks if I have an opening for a 15 month old boy. I tell her yes and she asks nothing else and says that she'll stop over either that day or the next. I stop her and say ahhhhh no, you will need an appt. I don't do interviews during daycare hours. So I scheduled her appointment for tonight at 5:30. She got my name off the gov't site. I haven't had an interview with someone that got my name off that site in I can't remember when. I do get calls from it, but I've always been full at that precise time. Most all times my families are from referrals. I'm really expecting that this lady doesn't show up. Her accent was so strong that I could barely understand her as well. What is a customary time to wait for an interview before you guys split?
Brooksie 10:31 AM 08-22-2013
Originally Posted by lovemykidstoo:
This reminds me of a phone call I received this past Tuesday. Lady calls and asks if I have an opening for a 15 month old boy. I tell her yes and she asks nothing else and says that she'll stop over either that day or the next. I stop her and say ahhhhh no, you will need an appt. I don't do interviews during daycare hours. So I scheduled her appointment for tonight at 5:30. She got my name off the gov't site. I haven't had an interview with someone that got my name off that site in I can't remember when. I do get calls from it, but I've always been full at that precise time. Most all times my families are from referrals. I'm really expecting that this lady doesn't show up. Her accent was so strong that I could barely understand her as well. What is a customary time to wait for an interview before you guys split?
10-15 minutes after scheduled interview time. If they weren't there by 5:45 there would be no interview. I have stuff to do and I don't have a lot of time to do it in.This reminds me of a phone call I received this past Tuesday. Lady calls and asks if I have an opening for a 15 month old boy. I tell her yes and she asks nothing else and says that she'll stop over either that day or the next. I stop her and say ahhhhh no, you will need an appt. I don't do interviews during daycare hours. So I scheduled her appointment for tonight at 5:30. She got my name off the gov't site. I haven't had an interview with someone that got my name off that site in I can't remember when. I do get calls from it, but I've always been full at that precise time. Most all times my families are from referrals. I'm really expecting that this lady doesn't show up. Her accent was so strong that I could barely understand her as well. What is a customary time to wait for an interview before you guys split?
Jack Sprat 12:12 PM 08-22-2013
I had someone show up today to talk about daycare...During LUNCH! No call, text, nothing just rang the bell. How in the heck was I suppose to remember what all I wanted to tell her during that time. Lunch with twin 3 yr olds, a 4 yr old and an 19 month old can get kind of hairy. And add a stranger in and gets crazy! Totally threw me for a loop. Needless, to say she got to see me in action with chaos and she walked away with no paper work and I told her she could come back and get it later. I do know who she is, that would be the only reason she was allowed in.
No call, text, nothing just rang the bell. How in the heck was I suppose to remember what all I wanted to tell her during that time. Lunch with twin 3 yr olds, a 4 yr old and an 19 month old can get kind of hairy. And add a stranger in and gets crazy! Totally threw me for a loop. Needless, to say she got to see me in action with chaos and she walked away with no paper work and I told her she could come back and get it later. I do know who she is, that would be the only reason she was allowed in.
lovemykidstoo 03:02 PM 08-22-2013
Originally Posted by Brooksie:
10-15 minutes after scheduled interview time. If they weren't there by 5:45 there would be no interview. I have stuff to do and I don't have a lot of time to do it in.
Just as I figured, she was a no-show. I knew it the moment I got off the phone with her 2 days ago. Just had a feeling.10-15 minutes after scheduled interview time. If they weren't there by 5:45 there would be no interview. I have stuff to do and I don't have a lot of time to do it in.