I think I need to call it quits. My spouse does not like the job I am doing because the income is so irregular. He does not like how some of the families are that have been through here in the past. I think I need to quit after 3 years because I just am not making it and some parents are really screwed up and that is why I want to leave. I love the families I have now, but the ones I have had before are a wreck, I have been screwed out of money so many times, and re arranging plans when people are late and working 12 or more hour days for less than minimum wage is really bad.

I love the children and I kept at it as long as I could. Also there are more and more centers popping up and new providers popping up that attract parents so I don't feel like I can compete. The list really goes on and on but I need to get out of this ASAP

I cannot pay my bills, I cannot pay my old student loans on 6/hr or less depending on who is here when.

I don't know how to tell my families that I have now, I really love them both and think they are super awesome but I don't know if I can even pay my re-licensing fee that is how bad it has gotten.

A second job might not float things and I don't know a lot of people in the area so I don't know.

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if you love working with children, is there a preschool or day care you can work at?

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My husband is the complete opposite...I have wanted out for a long time but he thinks this job is the best thing since sliced bread. It frustrates me because he doesn't see how drained I am or how done I really am and I don't feel like I can just let it all go without having him on board.

Just let them know that you and your spouse have decided that childcare is no longer a viable option for your family and that you will be closing at the end of the month (I would suggest giving them 4 weeks notice).

They will find alternate care and life will go on. Don't let the guilt you feel about quitting get in the way of your marriage or finances. You chose childcare as a business venture in order to make money and not because you felt obligated to care for children to help people out.

Telling them is the hardest part and seeing them everyday until you close is not easy but once the last child packs up and walks out the door, you will feel like celebrating

Good luck!

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I would give a termination date 1 month out to give them time to find care and leave on a high note. If you can't do that, at least 2 weeks of course. I would send them off with honesty, providing daycare isn't working out and it has been a pleasure to work with them and their children. If in home care isn't working, but you want to continue to care for children, perhaps there is a preschool or center, or someone else who does in home that would hire you? You may end up with the kids back in your care if you do care elsewhere.

And good luck with your next adventure

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I would start applying for jobs and then give the parents notice once you have something lined up. I understand you care for them but in the big scope of things, this is not a big deal. They will find another daycare and life will go on. Things happen. They might be upset but they will get over it. Find a way to meet the needs of you and your husband and that is what is most important. Do what is right for you.

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Yes.

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Good luck & hugs to you!!!

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