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daycarediva 11:01 AM 05-22-2013
I have always allowed my kids who don't nap to play quietly on their mats with books, puzzles, or small toys.
I have a kid who is not napping about half the time. Today a dcm brought in dcb's ipad and said "Here, he can play this if he doesn't sleep today." and RAN back out.
Um, no.
1. it has internet access, and I am NOT sitting next to him monitoring it.
2. The FIRST thing he said during circle time was "I am NOT sleeping today, I brought my ipad to play and you all have to nap na-na-na-na-na!"
Well, dcb fell asleep during nap today, and woke up 10 minutes ago and is DEMANDING his ipad. I said No. Naptime is almost over anyway and I told him to go play toys.
I have a kid who is not napping about half the time. Today a dcm brought in dcb's ipad and said "Here, he can play this if he doesn't sleep today." and RAN back out.
Um, no.
1. it has internet access, and I am NOT sitting next to him monitoring it.
2. The FIRST thing he said during circle time was "I am NOT sleeping today, I brought my ipad to play and you all have to nap na-na-na-na-na!"
Well, dcb fell asleep during nap today, and woke up 10 minutes ago and is DEMANDING his ipad. I said No. Naptime is almost over anyway and I told him to go play toys.
Blackcat31 11:04 AM 05-22-2013
I don't take non-nappers and no way in h3ll I would allow a child who is stil young enough to require child care to be allowed to play with an electronic device that costs that much!
NOT in my watch.
I have it right in my contract/handbook that I do not allow any cell phones, hand held games or anything similar. I'm watching your child, not your electronics.
NOT in my watch.
I have it right in my contract/handbook that I do not allow any cell phones, hand held games or anything similar. I'm watching your child, not your electronics.
daycarediva 11:10 AM 05-22-2013
I only take SA'ers who don't nap, and they watch a movie quietly (I allow them to bring Nintendo DS's as well). This child is 2. 2! I have agreed to keep him until the end of summer(doesn't make a difference to have him nap or not since SA'ers are awake), but if he is still not napping by that time, he will have to find different care.
MsLaura529 11:11 AM 05-22-2013
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
I don't take non-nappers and no way in h3ll I would allow a child who is stil young enough to require child care to be allowed to play with an electronic device that costs that much!
NOT in my watch.
I have it right in my contract/handbook that I do not allow any cell phones, hand held games or anything similar. I'm watching your child, not your electronics.
Exactly. Huge liability issue if something were to happen to the iPad at your house. I don't take non-nappers and no way in h3ll I would allow a child who is stil young enough to require child care to be allowed to play with an electronic device that costs that much!
NOT in my watch.
I have it right in my contract/handbook that I do not allow any cell phones, hand held games or anything similar. I'm watching your child, not your electronics.
And I can't help but laugh at the fact that he was mocking the other kids about being able to play on his iPad during naptime, and then he fell asleep.
daycarediva 11:16 AM 05-22-2013
*insert full fledged screaming tantrum about the ipad here*
he woke up everyone else. *sigh*
he woke up everyone else. *sigh*
EntropyControlSpecialist 11:28 AM 05-22-2013
I do not allow toys or items from home to be brought. Do you have a similar rule?
I would have handed it back to DCM IMMEDIATELY and said, "I'm sorry, no electronics allowed for children under the age of 5." since she may know that you allow school agers to have them? Tape a note to it that states your policy on electronics/toys from home, put it in a plastic grocery bag, and double knot that grocery bag.
I would have handed it back to DCM IMMEDIATELY and said, "I'm sorry, no electronics allowed for children under the age of 5." since she may know that you allow school agers to have them? Tape a note to it that states your policy on electronics/toys from home, put it in a plastic grocery bag, and double knot that grocery bag.
LK5kids 11:43 AM 05-22-2013
Rght now I am on my I-pad, but iPads for kids become an evil machine. Kids are becoming addicted to them realllly young and it's scary!
Also, yes way too expensive to have at my center!
Also, yes way too expensive to have at my center!
MsLaura529 11:55 AM 05-22-2013
Originally Posted by LK5kids:
Rght now I am on my I-pad, but iPads for kids become an evil machine. Kids are becoming addicted to them realllly young and it's scary!
Also, yes way too expensive to have at my center!
This is the first thing out of my 4 yr old daughter's mouth when we visit my parents/sister, "Aunt Amy, can I play a game on your iPad?" I always tell her not to ask, but it happens anyways, and then she asks about 4-5 more times throughout the visit. My sister (14 yrs old) does not have a problem telling my kids no when it needs to be said, so she doesn't give in to the whining and pouting. We do not have one at home, but she started getting to play with one at preschool (they had some music game on it, where the kids composed a song with different shapes and colors), and I'm ok with the occasional game here or there for a young age. But yes, my daughter has become obsessed! It drives me crazy!Rght now I am on my I-pad, but iPads for kids become an evil machine. Kids are becoming addicted to them realllly young and it's scary!
Also, yes way too expensive to have at my center!
nannyde 11:58 AM 05-22-2013
Woops I dropped the ipad into the spaghetti sauce. Sorry mommy. Sometimes I wonder how you guys can trust me with your kids 
Blackcat31 12:00 PM 05-22-2013
Originally Posted by daycarediva:
*insert full fledged screaming tantrum about the ipad here*
he woke up everyone else. *sigh*
*insert full fledged screaming tantrum about the ipad here*
he woke up everyone else. *sigh*
At that point, DCM would be getting a call at work to come get her child.
Cradle2crayons 12:04 PM 05-22-2013
Originally Posted by nannyde:
Woops I dropped the ipad into the spaghetti sauce. Sorry mommy. Sometimes I wonder how you guys can trust me with your kids
Woops I dropped the ipad into the spaghetti sauce. Sorry mommy. Sometimes I wonder how you guys can trust me with your kids
Or even, thanks so much for sending e iPad for EVERYONE to play with, unfortunately it got broken when they were playing keep away... SORRY
EntropyControlSpecialist 12:05 PM 05-22-2013
Originally Posted by nannyde:
Woops I dropped the ipad into the spaghetti sauce. Sorry mommy. Sometimes I wonder how you guys can trust me with your kids
Tempting. Tempting to let all children play with the iPad right after snack with sticky fingers.Woops I dropped the ipad into the spaghetti sauce. Sorry mommy. Sometimes I wonder how you guys can trust me with your kids
littlemissmuffet 12:12 PM 05-22-2013
1. I don't take/keep non-nappers
2. I don't allow toys from home
3. After mom ran out the door I would have called her and said "Jane, please don't tell me or Timmy what he can do at nap time. He will not be given the ipad to play with at nap. As a matter of fact, the ipad is not allowed to come to daycare ever again. If Timmy causes a disruption during nap over the ipad I will call and have you come and get him so the rest of my group can nap. Thanks."
2. I don't allow toys from home
3. After mom ran out the door I would have called her and said "Jane, please don't tell me or Timmy what he can do at nap time. He will not be given the ipad to play with at nap. As a matter of fact, the ipad is not allowed to come to daycare ever again. If Timmy causes a disruption during nap over the ipad I will call and have you come and get him so the rest of my group can nap. Thanks."
Blackcat31 12:14 PM 05-22-2013
This is where my "Hotel California" rule about toys from home would come in handy.....I'd love to have an ipad...and free too! 
Oneluckymom 12:50 PM 05-22-2013
Originally Posted by daycarediva:
*insert full fledged screaming tantrum about the ipad here*
he woke up everyone else. *sigh*
*insert full fledged screaming tantrum about the ipad here*
he woke up everyone else. *sigh*
I would be SOOOO upset at that mom. I would write up a letter explaining your rules about electronics TODAY ! So sorry you had to deal with that.
Oneluckymom 12:52 PM 05-22-2013
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
At that point, DCM would be getting a call at work to come get her child.
Blackcat nailed it !!At that point, DCM would be getting a call at work to come get her child.
Rockgirl 12:53 PM 05-22-2013
Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
This is where my "Hotel California" rule about toys from home would come in handy.....I'd love to have an ipad...and free too!
I love it!This is where my "Hotel California" rule about toys from home would come in handy.....I'd love to have an ipad...and free too!
SilverSabre25 01:29 PM 05-22-2013
I allow non nappers to play with toys or watch a movie quietly, but, I have a separate napping room so it's not too difficult for me.
No way in h3ll would I allow an iPad into my home...I don't even have one. No way in h3ll would I allow a child that young to play with it instead of sleep, and no in h3ll would I allow a child of ANY age to get away with mocking like that!! He's only 2?! That sounds like something a 4 yo would do!! He must be very verbal!
No way in h3ll would I allow an iPad into my home...I don't even have one. No way in h3ll would I allow a child that young to play with it instead of sleep, and no in h3ll would I allow a child of ANY age to get away with mocking like that!! He's only 2?! That sounds like something a 4 yo would do!! He must be very verbal!
MissAnn 02:04 PM 05-22-2013
Originally Posted by daycarediva:
*insert full fledged screaming tantrum about the ipad here*
he woke up everyone else. *sigh*
Little Johnny loved using the ipad today. Did you know he's a very good reader....astonishingly! He read the first chapter of your Fifty Shades of Grey. *insert full fledged screaming tantrum about the ipad here*
he woke up everyone else. *sigh*
Kelli372 02:28 PM 05-22-2013
Originally Posted by MissAnn:
Little Johnny loved using the ipad today. Did you know he's a very good reader....astonishingly! He read the first chapter of your Fifty Shades of Grey.
Perfect!!Little Johnny loved using the ipad today. Did you know he's a very good reader....astonishingly! He read the first chapter of your Fifty Shades of Grey.
daycarediva 03:32 PM 05-22-2013
This dcb is SERIOUSLY electronics addicted. I am doing the back to basics toy play with him and everything. DCM is just happy that he can entertain himself for hours on end (all electronically, mind you).
Anyway, ipad is banned here, she got the notice home about the no electronics for under 5 (directly from my handbook) and then proceeded to worry that little jr would be bored. I didn't respond at all, she went on to say that she doesn't mind if he misses nap, because he is asleep by 6:30. I literally just HAD to walk away. I couldn't listen for another second after that.
I am SO sad for this generation of kids being raised on electronics. Don't get me wrong, my kids HAVE them, they just have LIMITED time with them. I think owning an ipad (yes it is HIS ipad) at 2 years old is the definition of ridiculous. He also has a kindle, a bigscreen tv in his room with a dvd player, and xbox with Netflix that he can watch on demand. C R A Z Y.
Anyway, ipad is banned here, she got the notice home about the no electronics for under 5 (directly from my handbook) and then proceeded to worry that little jr would be bored. I didn't respond at all, she went on to say that she doesn't mind if he misses nap, because he is asleep by 6:30. I literally just HAD to walk away. I couldn't listen for another second after that.
I am SO sad for this generation of kids being raised on electronics. Don't get me wrong, my kids HAVE them, they just have LIMITED time with them. I think owning an ipad (yes it is HIS ipad) at 2 years old is the definition of ridiculous. He also has a kindle, a bigscreen tv in his room with a dvd player, and xbox with Netflix that he can watch on demand. C R A Z Y.